Yeah, it's about our attitude towards reality, and how we truly accept it, isn't it?
I don't think it's just this mythical "positivity" that your writing reflects, for the years I've been reading posts on talkbass, you've been among the top 5 people that I consider actually being wise and realistic but also not narrow minded.
I'm constantly trying my best to understand older people's perspectives (which is obviously harder due to the big generation gap since I'm only 25), and I can exchange ideas just fine a lot of the time without any flame going on, but when they use sweeping statements that make no sense in the context, I always have to doubt their perspective as having very little relation to the observable reality, and most of the time, I get called a kid and having
no perspective because I don't consider things that were true 50 years ago to still be true today and because I don't take someone's word for granted (just because they are older, basically).
As I wrote previously in this thread, it's actually disheartening to see older people (who truly believe they're wise just because they're experienced, which doesn't go hand in hand as often as we'd all like) get stuck in their ways and discard many things that came after they've stopped looking for new music and new music styles, but you seem to have always been open to new ideas and tried to grasp them and accept/reject with skepticism and realism, which I'd like to see more often in those parts, particularly among the older generations, but of course, younger people as well.
Me having issues with people 2-3 generations older than me doesn't come from talkbass, however - but actual wiseasses (not to be confused with our very own Wisebass

) from real life who all seem to know everything but fail at every A/B test I've ever given them.