If it's a big, sensory overload type of venue, I almost always go outside for a while as long as it's not too cold, especially if there is nobody there who I know on a solid basis.
I also do not want to listen to any music on the drive home. I just performed music, perhaps loudly, for 2 and a half plus hours. It's like when you start eating chocolate and it tastes good; then you get to that point where it is just too much. I usually listen to a podcast, NPR, or the BBC on my way home.
Its usually some nice jazz on the radio for the ride home or maybe nothing at all.
