You’re right, of course; on the other hand, I’m not obligated to pursue it if doing so makes me feel bad. Let another more heartless buyer snag that instrument.
Like I said, I understand. OTOH if it was something I was in a position to use I'd probably help them achieve their goal. It's not like I've never sold something under duress. I'd rather have the cash at that moment than the empathy
Edit: or ethics.