I just don't like v-brakes. At least, cheap ones. The bikes in my family's fleet that require the most brake maintenance are v-brakes. I find it hard to keep them centered, and I'm probably doing everything right. I think a problem is that on a lot of frames, especially shorter ones, it's hard to really have enough space to route the cable properly, so the housing is always tugging on the noodle.
But canti's can be mounted on the same posts. Granted, they're not always optimal for cable routing either. Two bikes in the fleet have canti's. This isn't deliberate, but just luck of the draw on old bikes that we happen to have.
I'm quite happy with modern Tektro dual pivot calipers, and my fun bike has an old Dia-Compe single pivot caliper that was their higher-end model, and it's fine. One of my bikes has mechanical discs, and those are fine too. It can be a bit of a coin toss as to whether disc brakes are quiet or noisy. Mine are reasonably quiet, the ones on my wife's Surly can be heard from a quarter mile away.
If wheels need constant truing, it's a sign that they were built with insufficient spoke tension. That's a known issue with machine built wheels. If it's not a super high end bike, you might be able to just give each spoke a half turn to increase the overall tension, next time you have to adjust the wheels. I build my own wheels, so it's somewhat a matter of pride, but mine rarely need adjustment. Like the intonation of my basses.