Nate & Selta,Similar experience I'm going through at the moment, and honestly, it's only made me have deeper appreciation for Dingwall all the more.
Was in queue for a long time as well - that's normal.
First build got done. Dingwall reached out asking if I was happy with it, as, they didn't think it hit all the points I had asked for, especially with the finish (but also the inlays). That build ended up with Sweetwater, who, apparently recently sold it when I said I would pass on it.
Now the rebuild was in process, and they had finished the neck, and thought I might not be perfectly thrilled with that. I think they know me all too well and hopefully don't think I'm a PITA. But, after I thought about it and looked at photos of the finished neck, I decided that yeah, when dropping this many thousands, I want as close to what I had in my head, not "close enough". I'm sure that build will get finished and sold and someone will end up with an amazing bass out of it.
So now I'm on the 2nd rebuild, third try for my latest Z. I get to be an early adopter of a brand new fretboard wood, which is pretty cool. But it will be another 3-ish months til this build is done.
I feel really bad "sending back" those other two, all in all. But I am excited for this build even if it's taking longer, through no one's fault at all. I could get all upset and bothered that the first finish didn't turn out correctly and the wood inlays were not what I imagined, but, wood is gonna do what it does sometimes, and ya just gotta roll with it.
Thanks for sharing those stories. It just reinforces that I need to be unafraid of making them aware of what needs to be done to make this right.