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Divorce for Christmas

Everybody needs to get their divorce out of the way early because it takes time to build the financial security you WILL need later in life. Do it down the road after you have spent a lifetime building security and you'll regret it.
 
Now....do you really think that woman are the only ones who cant be trusted????? Now that is funny!!!!!! I have alot of guy friends, and I know that more than 1/2 of them cheat or have cheated on their wives/girlfriends. And that my sweet, shy, Kentucky country boy, who I thought would never do this to me, was one of them........
So no, its not a sex thing, its a human nature thing. Its people in general who can not be trusted.

Psshhh. Men can cheat and still be in love with their wife.

IME, 9 times out of 10, when someone "falls out of love" it's the woman. Soulless creatures, they are. :D
 
My condolences.

Now that I've taken care of that part, there is a potnential brightside to your situation. You can now take part in any debauchery you like!

Get drunk, if ya wanna.
Get stoned, if ya wanna.
Go to the nudie bars, if ya wanna.
Sleep around, if ya wanna.
Go to Vegas, if ya wanna.
Go to Europe, if ya wanna.
Build a bass, if ya wanna.
Get a tattoo, if ya wanna.
Buy an 8x10, if ya wanna.

Now that you only have your own badass self to worry about, you can do WHATEVER YOU WANT!

Good luck, and have fun!!!
 
There's a girl out there who deserves your 200% attention, love and protection. And she'll give 200% back!

Until then, good luck and have fun "finding yourself." I'm sure it'll be an interesting journey, but you're probably not the same person you used to be and I'm sure it'll be a relief to be yourself instead of someone you're not.

One can get really caught up in trying to make a person happy that isn't happy and isn't ever going to be happy. And when that person is no longer around to "make happy" that's when you realize that you have needs and wants too.

Wow, so touch-feely! I think I need to counteract that with a beer and some MMA. I'm gonna make myself barf.