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Feel like starting all over

I found a lot of growth when going from flashy aggressive prog metal (12 yrs playing in bands) to hip hop, when I joined in on a friend's project. To play hip hop nicely I had to explore quite a bit different RH touch. Exploring different style can teach you a lot because there are many things players do to get appropriate sounds. When playing metal I use a fast percussive touch (fretboard noise etc, helps cut through), when playing hip hop or funkier styles I use less percussion/noise and a lot more tight muting.
 
I found a lot of growth when going from flashy aggressive prog metal (12 yrs playing in bands) to hip hop, when I joined in on a friend's project. To play hip hop nicely I had to explore quite a bit different RH touch. Exploring different style can teach you a lot because there are many things players do to get appropriate sounds. When playing metal I use a fast percussive touch (fretboard noise etc, helps cut through), when playing hip hop or funkier styles I use less percussion/noise and a lot more tight muting.

...this is very interesting... I'm not into hip-hop, but thanks for the explanation... gives me a window into it...
 
I’d definitely recommend picking ONE bassist and learning a bunch of their bass lines.
- Just write the letter for the note if you don’t know music notation. Writing it down increases your attention to detail and forces you to work on your weak areas.
- it expands your song repertoire
- you understand and absorb their approach to music on a deep level.

Do you have an app that can slow down songs, loop sections you’re learning, etc? I use Amazing Slow Downer. There’s a bunch of other apps too, discussed in dozens of other threads.
Definitely will have to look into those apps. Thanks!
 
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I also took music lessons from kindergarten thru high school. Took up the bass in my mid-20's. I was utterly buried in theory, endless practice, all the '10,000 hour' stuff to the exclusion of virtually everything else that life had to offer.

To the extent that not once, but twice, I sold everything and walked away for about a year each time as 'I thought I wasn't making the progress I should', which in my older age I realized was actually my teachers' pounding on me having now become a Puritan-like drive almost welded into my very DNA.

I now see that I really wasn't making the progress I should have because my life had become a singular pursuit of music to the exclusion of anything else. I fully understand that a certain exclusion and single-mindedness and discipline is required to become good at anything, but I had crossed waaaayyyyyyy over the line of having room for anything else to feed my heart and mind: Some folks can be that single-minded and make it work, but I needed experiences away from it from time to time to keep me feeling human and I didn't do it, and I may have been a better player in a few ways, but I was far less successful as a basic human being.

So my advice to this when it comes up (and it always does) is: Go Fishing. Read new books. Watch old movies. In other words, maintain your gigs and practice enough to stay at your proficiency, but otherwise, take a walk. You're at a skill level where a little time away isn't going to hurt, and it will help far more than you can imagine.

There's a whole world out there away from music, and letting your mind out of the practice, method books, videos, and the whole ball of bass wax from time to time will in my opinion help people out of the bass-bent-my-head cul de sac dead end quicker than anything else. I've heard lots of guys say they could never work on an assembly line instead of being a musician, yet so often, we mentally put ourselves on one . . . . . .

This is what I found worked for me. Your results may vary . . . . . .

This is actually something I haven't really thought of before. This might actually be the reason behind my exasperation regarding my learning process. As always, thanks for the advice.
 
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One thing you could do that might not require any additional time at all is would be simply to listen to a lot of music outside whatever genre(s) you usually favor. This is something you can do whenever you would ordinarily listen to music: in the car, while doing the dishes, etc. If you're generally a rock guy, listen to jazz, or vice-versa. This would be a great way to "grow as a musician" whenever you have the opportunity to listen to music. Plus, doing this might give you ideas about things you'd like to learn how to play on the bass.
 
Greetings to my fellow bassists! Not sure if there's already a thread about the topic I'm about to present; nevertheless, it's something that has been bothering me for quite some time. I've been playing bass since I was 16 (currently 25) and I do have some musical "knowledge," if you can say so. I played piano, sax, and guitar before I picked up the bass. I also took classes for piano and sax in elementary & middle school, along with my private lessons. My brother gave me my first bass for my 16th birthday and I just started playing (by ear). I started taking private lessons at 20 until I was 23, and started to acquire this weird feeling. My lessons were mostly different songs, licks, slap technique, etc... the cool stuff I was so excited to learn, but there was something missing. Currently I play in 2 wedding bands and a worship band (sometimes the keys). I'm trying to reboot my learning process because I want to grow as a bassist and a musician overall. I feel like maybe I need a fresh start, yet there's also a sense that I might just waste time. Basically, in desperate need of advice.
Theory. Read music, learn chord theory. Find a good teacher versed in jazz.
 
I've been subscribed to his channel on Youtube for a long time. I'm thinking of joining the academy, but having second thoughts about the whole "online-school" idea. (Could be wrong about it)
It's decent if you don't have a teacher, but only teachers can watch you play and point out where you're going wrong.
 
I grew up in a musical family, just like the OP. Perhaps you've got a case of too much, too fast?

Here's how that happened to me:

When I turned 16, my dad launched my pro career by making me his bassist for weddings and banquets. I started teaching guitar and bass lessons around the same time, and jammed with anyone I could when I wasn't teaching or gigging.

My dad's buddies were all jazz musicians, and mostly a decade or so his senior. Their MO was to stop taking requests once the crowd got drunk enough, and just blow jazz for the rest of the night. This really helped my walking bass and fretboard knowledge.

At 17, I enrolled in a College jazz program with a very competitive vibe. It was all about who had the best and fastest chops. It was good for my ear and confidence, but it nearly ruined me as a bassist- I pretty much became the sort of tasteless note monster you sometimes see in NAMM videos.

My dad noticed what was happening, and started to pass theatre gigs on to me. It was a big change, great for my sight reading, and a fascinating challenge.

Still, something was off. I dropped out of school, started to be a little more selective about the types of gigs that I accepted, and got a day job. None of those changes helped, and I was really struggling with my musical direction.

Today, this would probably be recognized as burnout.

The first thing that saved me, was deciding to take a summer off to learn how to ride dirt bikes. By the time I started taking gigs later that fall, I was physically fit, more relaxed, but just a little rusty. Not enough to stop me from playing, but enough to make me slow down and think about what I was playing.

As soon as I did that, I began to fall in love all over again, drawn back to the sort of melodic playing that initially attracted me to the instrument.

The second, was deciding to go back to school and learn more about audio and electronics. Becoming an amp and instrument technician, and eventually starting to build a few instruments, enriched my musical life in new and unexpected ways. It also led to side gigs as a sound guy and location recording engineer, as well as an unexpected but financially rewarding career as a telecom technician and manager.

I had another fallow period in my mid 30's. In that case, the burr under my saddle was competition between my day job, gigging, and family life. I don't know if it was the best choice, but my decision was to lay off playing out until my children were older.

I never sold my gear or stopped playing at home, but I put family first. As soon as they were more independent, I eased back into gigging, and never stopped.

Short version: Don't stress about it. Follow your muse. Put family first. Seek learning wherever you find it. Don't be afraid to try new things.

My 65th birthday is in a couple of weeks, and I'm glad to say that I'm going stronger than ever!
 
I'm going to offer that you need more focused goals than "growing as a musician" What does that mean to you? Playing with more freedom? Playing with more groove? Learning to walk or comp over chords? etc.

Mugre
What I mean by "growing as a musician" is having the knowledge to explain what and why I play something. Goal-wise I'm trying to "play with more freedom," as you've mentioned, and by "freedom," meaning playing smart and groovy, not just licks & chops. I want to be the bassist that puts the band upfront and be the backbone. (not sure if this makes sense)
 
[QUOTE=". I want to be the bassist that puts the band upfront and be the backbone. (not sure if this makes sense)

Makes perfect sense, but until you learn to play and perfect many styles you wont have much to draw from. No diss- but the metal guys fold, tiring to do slap /funk and jazz. Until you get rapped around a lot of music / styles
you are a hack like me. Some teachers are pop corn machines and not going to take you there. Find a player(s) that blow you away and study. Get in deep and understand why they play like they do? listen to the the sound texture and how they complement the music. Record your self ( harsh reality ) no better way to refine your craft. Playing the notes high on the neck can give you a better grove too. All apart of mastering the instrument. Bass Tabs on YouTube can be very helpful. As others said already talent will help, but the rest is a lot of devotion and hard work.