This happened to me. So then the OP's question: do you boss around your bassist? Well, he asked me if I wanted him to do my lines note for note. I said absolutely not, I wanted him to do HIS thing, HIS voice, go nuts. And he came up with the most incredible stuff. Nothing like my original lines. All awesome. He asked me if it was OK, if I wanted him to change anything - hell no. Never ask me that again. Do your thing, Les. Same with the drummer. Make it happen. Don't play anything I did unless you want to. Don't ask me if it will be OK because I've been playing with you for 25 years and it will be OK.
But I'd been playing with these guys for a long time and knew I could trust their killer instincts. That's the part you gotta have. I would not have cut another batch of people the same freedoms. But damn, it paid off so well.
Hilarious thing about that whole outfit is that the drummer's main instrument was guitar (he was a phenomenal guitarist AND a slamming drummer), both guitar players, me and my writing partner, were both bassists by trade, and only the guy playing bass was playing his main instrument.
so, i’m trying to get a friend of mine to play bass for my own project. i’ve been a huge fan of his band for the past ten years and they recently broke up. he already plays the style im looking for, has the amp i want, and already has a killer tone. i would love to have this dude just do his thing with these songs, he already gets it.
but a stranger? i dunno. on the one hand, i worry i would micromanage them too much since i know the tone I want and i’m writing all the songs to begin with. on the other, i kinda wish i could join a band and just be told where to be and what to play. i’ve had a ton of fun playing bass in “brain off, beers on” kinda bands.
i guess the ideal situation is we teach other and both get better!







