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I don't much like facebook

First, not too familiar with how it all works.

Second, and this is the biggie, I accept friend requests or try and friend some of my old friends from back in the day (okay, way back in the day) and I don't recognize these quasi senior citizens! I mean they have the same name but they cannot possibly be my friends who were skinny and with hair last I saw them.

facebook just makes me sad.
Welcome to life. We get old. We die. Life is for the living though and we'll all be living 'till we're not. There's no other moment than now. Enjoy every breath you're allowed :)
 
I don't like it, and I'm not on it. If I want someone to know how I'm doing, I'll find them and say so. Same goes if I want to know how others are doing, I'll contact them. Too many other constructive things I could be doing rather than getting involved in others' pickles and negativity on a continual basis. A never ending time sapping stress trip IMO.

I don't even like cell phones, so I keep a landline and a bare bones prepaid Tracfone that I barely use. I'd rather spend a free weekend up north in campgrounds, waterfalls, lakes, trails, sunsets... where there is not a soul for miles.
 
no problem w/Facebook ... i've found that it's even scarier to check out the old girl friends ..!! ahhhh ...

or the pleasant surprise how great a few of them look ...!!

pick your Friends carefully ... Follow hardly none ... it's My page ,... so i do kinda make some of my own rules ... follow them , or piss off .!

i do know what you mean ... recently seeing a few pics from my 40th reunion ... didn't go , but what a bunch of old f*rts ... i look like a younger long haired hippy in comparison ..! ha ....

music is magic medicine ... if you quit drinking soon enough .!
 
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I think people can create whatever reality they want on FB. I avoid obvious idiots, I delete people who become bigmouths. If people I truly like are overdoing it, I put them on mute quickly. I follow some highly qualified, old-school journalists who cover state and local issues, which keeps me informed. I have loads of musicians in my network who keep me constantly exposed to a curated variety of new music and art and events. I have dozens of old school chums who get a kick out of my baby pictures. There is a virtual yard sale in my county that I use to buy and sell odds and ends. Not much to complain about, really. I do tend to check it obsessively when I am nervous or distracted, so I try to keep that in check.
 
TalkBass is the closest I'll ever get to social media, and sometimes I wonder about this place. I couldn't give juicy toot less about Facebook.

At age 47, I still communicate weekly by phone and/or email with my best buddy from high school, and my childhood sweetheart. Both of them are on the opposite coast from here... one in California, the other in Washington.
 
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I've completely changed the way I use Facebook over the past year and really enjoy much more. I'm stopped following about 80% of my friends on there. Now I get updates from cool pages related to music, travel, photography, pop science, weird stuff...

Things I find more interesting than other people's daily lives.

Here are two pages that I get several updates a day from and really enjoy them. Maybe others on here would, too.

Atlas Obscura | Facebook

History In Pictures | Facebook
 
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TalkBass is the closest I'll ever get to social media, and sometimes I wonder about this place. I couldn't give juicy toot less about Facebook.

At age 47, I still communicate weekly by phone and/or email with my best buddy from high school, and my childhood sweetheart. Both of them are on the opposite coast from here... one in California, the other in Washington.

FB makes it MUCH easier to keep in contact with far away people to some degree, and the 'private' groups are really good for the closer friends that are distances away and that I don't call regularly. However, as a single guy who's kinda a tad slutty (I own it), it's gotten me into trouble...