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In mourning...

Damn dude. I am sorry. The guys I jam with I have known for 30 years. We were high school buddies. I just couldn't imagine jamming with them on one planned practice and them not being there for the next. Again, very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you, the rest of his friends, and his family.
 
My lifelong friend, brother, and bandmate Bobby Neal died suddenly yesterday after a brief illness. He was 55.

He took ill after rehearsing with us on Sunday. By Tuesday he was unresponsive. He was in ICU until Saturday, when it was apparent that the physicians' efforts were not reversing his condition. I was with him and his wife Saturday morning when she made the difficult decision to stop treatment and put him on comfort measures only, and later that afternoon when he peacefully left us, surrounded by family and friends.

Treasure your friends, especially those you get to share this gift of music with.


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That is so hard. My deepest sympathies to you and yours. Losing someone you love is the hardest thing any person ever goes through. It’s especially hard when someone dies suddenly without warning, and relatively young. I can only share with you what someone told me years ago when I lost someone I was very close to: “try to remember what you had, not what you’ve lost”. It can be very difficult to follow that advice in the early months after losing someone, but the more time passes, the truer it becomes. And, yes, for all us, cherish and be thankful for what we have, every day.
 
My lifelong friend, brother, and bandmate Bobby Neal died suddenly yesterday after a brief illness. He was 55.

He took ill after rehearsing with us on Sunday. By Tuesday he was unresponsive. He was in ICU until Saturday, when it was apparent that the physicians' efforts were not reversing his condition. I was with him and his wife Saturday morning when she made the difficult decision to stop treatment and put him on comfort measures only, and later that afternoon when he peacefully left us, surrounded by family and friends.

Treasure your friends, especially those you get to share this gift of music with.


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Deepest sympathy. :(
Brent
 
My lifelong friend, brother, and bandmate Bobby Neal died suddenly yesterday after a brief illness. He was 55.

He took ill after rehearsing with us on Sunday. By Tuesday he was unresponsive. He was in ICU until Saturday, when it was apparent that the physicians' efforts were not reversing his condition. I was with him and his wife Saturday morning when she made the difficult decision to stop treatment and put him on comfort measures only, and later that afternoon when he peacefully left us, surrounded by family and friends.

Treasure your friends, especially those you get to share this gift of music with.


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Rock in Peace, Bobby.
 
Just think of those few times you were in the middle of a song and just totally groovin'. Hold on to that and remember it every time you think of him, that's what I do for fellow musicians who have passed on. I'm deeply sorry.