This reflects exactly my experience with Cuban music. For thew first two years in my salsa band I don't think I really "got it" - but eventually, after exposure, reading, listening, and especially learning the the other rhythm section parts, I was able to execute the part with a feel that was appropriate. Did I become Cahcaho? no, but I was able to move significantly in that direction.
It also contradicts the "either you have it or you don't " crowd.
"either you are capable of learning it, or you aren't" may be closer to the truth
"either your instructors are capable of teaching it, or they aren't" may be closer still
I rather agree. It's not a single definable thing, but a composite of teachable components.
And yet, it's an omnipresent descriptive that most players would place at the top of the pyramid of musical importance.
My whole problem with the common reasoning behind the "no" responses :
- "either you have it or you don't"
- "you have to find it for your self"
- "it only comes with listening / experience"
Is that I see it as an abdication of responsibility on the part of the teacher to actually teach.
- How do I tell If I "don't have it"?
- How do I find it in myself ?
- What qualities should I listen for?
- As I gain experience, what should I focus on?
As mentioned elsewhere ,
there are teachers who have attempted to tackle the problem,
rather than back away from such a vague, ill defined yet somehow supremely important concept.