What if the bartender sold the DUI guy his first three drinks, then his sober buddies came to the bar and bought drunky his next three? Maybe the bartender should be punished for letting other people buy drinks for others(?), but is he guilty of manslaughter?
No. Not if he didn't know. Even if he did, if the drunk wasn't in the establishment at the time it was being bought or consumed, I seriously doubt he could be held legally accountable. Morally, would be a different story.
These are good questions that people with greater minds than mine will have to one day answer. But to stay on topic, as you so diligently try to keep othersWhat if I link to a site that on Monday I thoroughly vetted and has no illegal material, and they post some mp3s on Tuesday. Am I supposed to know this? Am I responsible for it? How often do I have to check to see if they have anything illegal there? Every day? Every hour?
I agree with you that people want to avoid responsibility for their actions (edit: and that this often is wrong and/or results in wrongdoing). I think the difference between you and me is that I think the question of who is responsible for what is sometimes very complicated and that intelligent people (and even governments!) can reasonably disagree.
I think I just rubbed you wrong with the nerd comment.