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My nephew makes bad music

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Dude, are you nuts? Your nephew is AWESOME. (Is that him on the album cover? I hope so... :)) Now, to be fair, I'm biased, because I've been in and out of a band just like this for the last 20 years--we make ridiculously stupid music that makes us (and a few other people) laugh, but that generally makes most people uncomfortable and irritated. Why? Because it's FUN! That's all your nephew's doing...he's enjoying himself. Nothing wrong with that. And the lyrics and liner notes are hilarious--I mean, if his mom and Aunt Melba can't laugh at that, what can they laugh at? Seriously...leave him alone. He knows what he's doing... :)
 
THere was a guy who had real issues with his dad....last name Jackson, IIRC. He went on to a decent amount of success and fame. Of course, there was....well.....that.

OK, maybe let's talk Tina Turner. Some folks survive signnificant issues with family and prosper.
 
Don't get me wrong, I love my nephew more than the world. I was elated when he told me he was going to pick up a guitar and start recording some music. He recently put out some recordings on Bandcamp. It's intentionally bad, or something. There's barely even any guitar parts. It's just a big disappointment for me. I wanted him to be the next Joe Cocker, I think he has that potential.

WHat he did put together is not even guitar based and frankly the material is rude and offensive. I have a mind to tell his parents about these recordings, as he told me he's kept it secret from them. the music reveals personal relationship information about both his parents and himself. They wouldn't be happy to learn about their love lives and family secrets being put out in the open like that.

What should I do? Should I tell my brother?
If it's intentionally bad, or something, pretend you never saw it, or something. Choose your battles, don't open a can of worms, stay out of your brother's teenage kid's business, etc. save yourself the trouble
 
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