My V7s are heavy, sure, as any full J is, but they're not too heavy - I wouldn't hesitate to gig any of them. I do use good wide padded straps though!
I’m not envious… I couldn’t handle it and would show up next time with a
headless. I might be able to handle that.
Otherwise I really like the J bass and have an old cool red Squier Affinity from back when I had no money, wife just left me….. I decided to buy a bass. Needed one. Went down to Harrisburg GC and spotted a bright metallic red one that grabbed my attention. It drew me to it… The price tag was around $175 new.
I purchased it on the spot along with a Fender Rumble 100 bass amp, with the flashing red lights in the bottom vents. I learned to love those lights. Flashed to the beat. I still have it in my drum room.
This old J bass has special value to me because of the ‘hard times’. I didn’t care! I was ‘buying’ that bass and amp for myself with the little money I had. For myself. I am now a happily divorced man for about the last 20 years.
My new girlfriend fiance bought me a brand new Fender shoreline gold American Stratocaster. And lots of other guitar gear and stuff. She just bought me a brand new Honda 250 recon ATV in September, 6k$, cash on the barrelhead.
Don’t underestimate yourself… My x wife wouldn’t let me buy a $150 guitar with my own money. I had to lie about it. That’s no way to live. Life goes on. There is another page to the book of life you haven’t seen yet. You just don’t know about it.
The day I bought the red affinity I had the tech install a pair of Fender Noiseless J bass pickups in it passively. It sounds great. But it shows the tests of time now. A little on the rough side.
I want to get a new J bass actually and will find something on the light side. But like you said these big bass guitars are inherently heavy.
I don’t think heavy weight contributes much to tone that can’t be compensated for with other means.