A lot of responses and I appreciate the feed back, I'm dealing with a slight flood problem right now, but just some clarification points.
I prefer a strong band leader, the last band slowly turned into a mess because the BL allowed himself to be overruled by another BM
My goal was to find a band with better musicians than myself, the saying: it's better to be the worse musician in the room was what I was shooting for. I over shot.
This area is a little sticky as bands go, We are over run with classic rock bands, plenty of bassist, very few non classic rock bands with potential to make paying gigs, and bars etc. before covid were starving for non classic rock bands/party bands. I live in a remote part of the state and have to travel. Given the above, I tend to stick it out hoping for the best.
I love Tennessee Whisky's bass line
Back to work I'll read and reply later Thanks