I agree. In today's environment, with a lot of FOH sound, anything over 500W on stage is not only a waste but harmful to your hearing. Your stage rig is your monitor, and for most, they have a pre-eq di out so the tone of your bass is the tone the sound man puts in the room. I know a lot of guys say, "hey, with 1000W I have more then enough headroom." Well, with my 180W per channel, for 99% of my gigs, I have more then enough head room. My 500W heads do everything including outdoor gigs just fine. I am one of the few who uses a Vivid amp, and one has no eq and the other has an eq true bypass, which is the mode I use. Your sound, your tone, comes from your hands and whatever the bass can give you. And having a superior chord, which has minimal loss over 15 ft, or a good wireless, well, that is what you need.
If I am recording something that is mostly solo bass, well yeah, I want much more control over my parts then otherwise. But in a band setting, even recorded, it just doesn't matter which mid frequency is dialed in or which one is scooped. The only true original bass tones I have ever heard are McCartney's Hofner, Squire's Ric, Geddy's Ric/Steinberger, Jaco's fretless, and Graham Maby's Ibanez with nylons and a pick. Everything else is bass, good, sweet, bass.