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Over the past year or 2, I have read any number of threads where people who do not fill out their profiles feel compelled to jump into TBDB with both feet and provide incredible advice (and I don't mean that in a positive way). The thread usually devolves into many off topic asides and usually involves the new poster getting their feelings hurt and/or their feathers ruffled when others call them out on their more than obvious lack of knowledge and/or expertise.
Here are a few questions for everyone who hangs out here. How does a musician earn or gain respect? If you are a well established musician how hard did you work to become respected in your field (not on this forum)? Should everyone's opinions be considered equal? Should anyone, regardless of their lack of knowledge, expertise, playing ability and/or credentials have the right to blather on ad infinitum about things that they know little or nothing about without being questioned or called out?
I don't wish TBDB to be some kind of High School clique. However, I do KNOW ENOUGH to listen to those who are far more well versed in a particular area than I am. I'm not going to argue with luthiers that know far more than I do about buildings bases, or how to set up and repair them. I'M GOING TO LISTEN! I'm not going to try to provoke some of our classical members about areas of expertise in their field. I WANT TO LISTEN AND LEARN FROM THEM! There are also a number of bassists on this forum who have played with jazz giants, written well regarded books on jazz bass and generally built up a certain amount of CRED. I"M GOING TO LISTEN AND LEARN FROM THEM!
What is the point of being disrespectful to people who have actually done something in the music world? What is it that compels certain people who have done nothing of note to act like experts and/or sages? If you haven't gotten in the ring, you don't know what it's like to be a fighter; you can only imagine. Why not ask good questions and listen for a change!
What say you forum members? Do we want to use this forum as a great resource or do we want to see it degenerate into a boring, frustrating troll hang out? Why don't we police ourselves a bit better and show respect when it has been earned to those who have earned it! If you have something of worth to say, fill out your profile, let us know who you really are!
Best,
T
It's all good..at times some of these grown men are too sensitive... everyone's Moral compass is that of Tim Tebows...
I would take either over any of Marc's picks. Not that I don't respect his choice in women; I just don't share it. They're all very nice, really, but my preference is for a bit more..........substance.
p.s. I respect all women and those who admire women.
When a person comes on this forum, how are they supposed
to know who the "elite members" are?
The "elite" seem to stick together and jump on unsuspecting
folks who are just trying to find something out, but they just
say it wrong.
In my opinion, it is usually a good idea to spending some time reading a forum before signing up and posting. Just about any forum will have its own quirks and unwritten protocols, and it's good to get a sense of what those are before jumping into the fray. This applies to pretty much any internet forum, but it applies to the different sides of TB as well. There is a different culture here on the DB side than there is on the EB side, and taking some time to understand that culture and the various personalities here can help prevent misunderstandings.
When a person comes on this forum, how are they supposed
to know who the "elite members" are?
When someone trolls you, how do you know when they are
just a troll, or if they are special?
The "elite" seem to stick together and jump on unsuspecting
folks who are just trying to find something out, but they just say it wrong.
I have worked with professional musicians who for the most
part treated me like a human being. Not like some stupid
low class dumb a$$.
Do they change colors because of where they are. Or they
colored by all the stupid people on TB.
I never became a successful bassest, does that mean I can not participate.
Do you "elite" guys want all us dumb a$$es out of here?
If you are special, why can't we tell?
TB would be nothing without us.
Sophia Loren
And Sam Rivers. And three fine Chicago musicians, John Bishop, Larry Luchowski, and Rick Frigo.
Quite well done, sir!
When a person comes on this forum, how are they supposed
to know who the "elite members" are?
When someone trolls you, how do you know when they are
just a troll, or if they are special?
The "elite" seem to stick together and jump on unsuspecting
folks who are just trying to find something out, but they just
say it wrong.
I have worked with professional musicians who for the most
part treated me like a human being. Not like some stupid
low class dumb a$$.
Do they change colors because of where they are. Or they
colored by all the stupid people on TB.
I never became a successful bassest, does that mean I can
not participate.
Do you "elite" guys want all us dumb a$$es out of here?
If you are special, why can't we tell?
TB would be nothing without us.
Tabdog
In my opinion, it is usually a good idea to spending some time reading a forum before signing up and posting. Just about any forum will have its own quirks and unwritten protocols, and it's good to get a sense of what those are before jumping into the fray. This applies to pretty much any internet forum, but it applies to the different sides of TB as well. There is a different culture here on the DB side than there is on the EB side, and taking some time to understand that culture and the various personalities here can help prevent misunderstandings.
If you are a well established musician how hard did you work to become respected in your field (not on this forum)? Should everyone's opinions be considered equal? Should anyone, regardless of their lack of knowledge, expertise, playing ability and/or credentials have the right to blather on ad infinitum about things that they know little or nothing about without being questioned or called out?
But the form of respect Trey is talking about is of a higher order - respect based on recognition of skill and/or accomplishment. It can only be earned through years of hard work and training, and as such goes against the mindset of those who wish to have something for nothing, who want to talk the talk without first walking the walk.
I don't see that there are any "elites" here.