Welp, my gig tonight probably couldn't have gone any worse. Guitarist/vocalist breaks both his bottom E and A strings half way into the first song. I tell him to just pull out his backup but he tells me he didn't bring it. So what does he do? Proceeds to restring his guitar on stage. In an attempt to make the situation less awkward, the drummer and I locked into a nice filler groove with the use of my flanger. Tell you what, I was considering offloading the BF-3 these last few days but now its pretty much earned permanency on my board haha.
So the guitarist decides "I'm taking too long here" and just flat out leaves out the A string and doesn't bother to tune up the E string properly. As you can imagine, that made for some absolutely laughable riffing and chords. We crank into the next song and, lo and behold, the singer decides to scream every line for absolutely no legitimate reason. That and any actually sung lines were so off and so terrible, I literally had to look away from the audience out of embarrassment. He then belts out this horrid broken scream at the end of a mellower song which made me, and I'm sure many others, wince. After that song ended I actually heard a woman in the crowd say "Wow, even HE's shocked by it" presumably making reference to me.
To add insult to injury, the sound guy tells us over the monitors that we have one more song to play. At this point, we had only played three songs and been on stage for a total of 20 minutes of our 30 minute slot. Any other gig I would have cracked the ***** but considering the circumstances, I was thrilled to be getting off the stage that soon. We finished our set and I tore down my gear the fastest I ever have.
My only consolation about tonight is that I was able to do a little improv which I never thought I was able to pull off. It sounded good, I locked in with the drummer brilliantly and we even got some kind words for it after our set. A couple of members from the other bands came up to us and said things like "Nice save" and asked me about my effects. Of course, one of them asked "So what's up with your singer? He on something?" to which I replied "Unfortunately, no. That's just him".
So yeah..bit of a wall of text but I just felt like venting a little. What cuts me the most is that I know the vocalist/guitarist isn't going to take anything away from this experience and he's just gonna keep ****ing things up because apparently not giving a **** makes him look cool. There's no hope for him and unfortunately I've learned that far too late. I don't particularly like being on the end of a joke (which is what I feel manly people look at this band as) and I fear this crap is gonna hurt my reputation personally, which I normally wouldn't admit to caring about but if I want to take my music seriously then I suppose I need some sort of dignity). I'm gonna put myself out there to join a new band that I'd enjoy playing for. Once that's locked in, I'm ditching old mate's band for the better.
Ooof, that's rough. Sorry to hear about the gig troubles, but it sounds like you and the drummer did the best with what you had. Finding another band seems like a good plan, unfortunately one bad band member reflects on the whole group.