BassLand,
Correct! A good musician should be considered a good musician period. In my world, I have to say this is true, with the musicians I play music with, and also with the overwhelming majority of people I interact with, or have been involved in musicial situations in the past.
But, in the world as it is, I cannot deny that I have experienced a few incidents. I am old enough to have grown up in a world where girls only played the flute and clarinet, and I think things are better today. Nothing wrong with the flute and clarinet either, but, at that time, I wanted to play drums. People are not always used to seeing a female bass player in stage, but I assign no value of any negatively to this. I think they are just curious and then decide, that's cool, or whatever.
One specific incident was the guitarist in a past jazz band that barely tolerated me and the leader said that he could not stand female musicians. He didn't stick around long either and the leader wouldn't stand for that anyway. There were a few scattered incidents like that in the decades I have played music. Just real world reality, but few and far between.
All in all, I would say my musical experiences have been overwhelmingly positive. As I stated before in another way, being a musician is the norm of my being and it has always been so silly to assign gender to it but there are a few who still do.
Correct! A good musician should be considered a good musician period. In my world, I have to say this is true, with the musicians I play music with, and also with the overwhelming majority of people I interact with, or have been involved in musicial situations in the past.
But, in the world as it is, I cannot deny that I have experienced a few incidents. I am old enough to have grown up in a world where girls only played the flute and clarinet, and I think things are better today. Nothing wrong with the flute and clarinet either, but, at that time, I wanted to play drums. People are not always used to seeing a female bass player in stage, but I assign no value of any negatively to this. I think they are just curious and then decide, that's cool, or whatever.
One specific incident was the guitarist in a past jazz band that barely tolerated me and the leader said that he could not stand female musicians. He didn't stick around long either and the leader wouldn't stand for that anyway. There were a few scattered incidents like that in the decades I have played music. Just real world reality, but few and far between.
All in all, I would say my musical experiences have been overwhelmingly positive. As I stated before in another way, being a musician is the norm of my being and it has always been so silly to assign gender to it but there are a few who still do.
), she needs to have a beer poured on her head, she's an old washed-up bitch and it will be great when she dies so we don't have to listen to her big fat mouth anymore, etc. etc.