Cool is just so subjective. Rics look the least cool to me of the major manufacturers. They look better in the hands of a British Invasion Era rock bassist than they do with a guy like Cliff Burton(RIP) or Lemmy(RIP). Puffy-shirted Brits and Rics... that's why I'd never own one.
(RANT ON)You and me, both! I have friends that think Geddy is a God and that Rush is the greatest rock band that ever graced us mere mortals with their music. I look at them(my friends not the band) incredulously and with a certain curiosity. Not enough for me to engage in a discussion or enough for me to give Rush another shot at me "getting use" to their sound because believe me, I've tried. Since hearing Tom Sawyer for the first time in 81-82(?) and wanting to hear more, only to be so utterly disappointed with everything else on Moving Pictures... and everything else they've put out since then. I literally cannot switch to another channel fast enough when they come on the radio. (RANT OFF)
You hired the sitter for your son, not your mom. I wouldn't have paid her, she'd have gotten a lecture about what could have happened due to her inattentiveness and she'd never be called back.
Glad you had a good time with your old band mates and that your bass wasn't any worse for the "abuse" from your unattended son. You did say that you got something positive out of it with some quality time with your boy so that's a good thing. You didn't mention your son's age so that would important to know in how you initially reacted and if it was worth beating yourself up about.
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I must be a bit grumpy today as there is a definite air of negativity in this post but I mean no harm. Peace and love, peace and love.