Sorry to hear all that Colin. Talk about getting kicked when you're down.Well after 2 years of full on looking after my mum she is having to go to a nursing home next week as we can no longer give the level of care she needs (getting towards 24 hours a day now). Not a nice feeling letting your mother be taken away despite it being for the best; it will be even stranger being able to do things again without having to find cover for her, going to take a bit of time to readjust.
So after all that there I'll be jobless and skint, we'll have to sell the house and buy somewhere smaller. I'm unlikely to get another job at my age so I will resurrect my tools and get making some stuff again, what will depend on the size of workshop I can get but hopefully furniture of a limited size and a bass or two if I can find any market.
I remember when we my mom had to go to a nursing home when it was just too much for my sister and her family to take care of. I used to visit her when I could and always took my guitar with me. I'd start playing and she would sing and we'd end up with a whole room full of her neighbors. One one of the ladies that worked in the kitchen came in and sang "Amazing Grace". She had a beautiful voice. My mom called these visits "Singspiration". They were fun.
One of the funniest times for me was when she said, "Play 'In the Garden' again."
Me, "I haven't played 'In the Garden'. I don't think I even know that song.
Her, "Well just play whatever you were playing before and I'll sing it." Not sure what that says about my guitar skills but it's a great memory.
Wishing you all the best, Colin. I'll send prayers your way.