Well that was the second and last time I play with that guy. I have two general options for music situations.
1. Start something new and have free reign, but inevitably be fruitlessly looking for a drummer.
2. Try and join an existing band and hit the ground running, but have to learn their songs.
This thing was the worst of the two. No drummer, yet the guy only seemed to want to do his own songs, and also started telling me what to play in certain parts. So there's no drummer, you're telling me what to play and not paying me, and you're using my practice space and not offering money. NOPE.