But I coped with it and things got gradually back to a new normal at the end of 2019, even got back with the band in January after a year away (they used a sub) and had a gig in March just before lockdown. Will have annual follow-ups for a while, but things are stable a this time. I had a check-up with a stoma care nurse yesterday and she likes what she's seeing. Lost 44 pounds since January (now at 209 from 253), would like to be around 205 (I'm 5'11"), so I'm in the best physical shape I've been since university, I take the bike out 2-3 days a week and for longer runs on weekend and slowly getting back to pre-op form.
One of the good things coming out of all of this (and there are quite a few): I always loved TBirds, but being fatter made them rather uneasy to play. About a month ago, this all changed, so I added the trans black Pro to my current bolt-on model last weekend and still am on the lookout for a Gibson in the locals. I've played nothing but Thunderbirds since.
Life is good and I'm appreciating it much more.
Cheers