I bet I know half a dozen or more that will go to this. Fayettenam has an active fet scene for sure. Should be fun and full of nice people. I doubt anything too strange will be on display unless you go looking for it.
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My next gig
I’m excited yet scared lol
Fetish dress code?
Positive thing is the guy who sets up these shows does a good job promoting and taking care of the bands and they usually are well attended.
I’m sure some folks will want pictures. I’ll see what I can do but don’t want to come off as a weirdo. Lol


Everyone keeps saying there’s nothing to be scared about. There’s a fire act between the band before us and my band lolSounds like fun! There's nothing to be scared about - informed, willing consent is fundamental in the BDSM scene, and the mantra is "safe, sane and consensual." The worst that's likely to happen is that you'll discover some fetishes that you can't unsee.
Take an open mind, leave your camera at home, and you should have a great time.
About taking photos at events like this: if you do take them, and publish them, you could out people who really don't need their closed-minded boss/family/whoever to know they're into the scene. You could destroy somebody's career and/or their family relationships, so if you do pull out a camera, you'll come across as a lot worse than a weirdo.
This actually happened in Sydney (Australia) when Facebook screwed up their privacy controls, and a bunch of photos from a kink event were made public. The fallout was... not good, and not reversible.
Huh???but I did have to go down to the Cat Club bc some dude was all German with my girl.

My next gig
I’m excited yet scared lol
Fetish dress code?
Positive thing is the guy who sets up these shows does a good job promoting and taking care of the bands and they usually are well attended.
I’m sure some folks will want pictures. I’ll see what I can do but don’t want to come off as a weirdo. Lol
My next gig
I’m excited yet scared lol
Fetish dress code?
Positive thing is the guy who sets up these shows does a good job promoting and taking care of the bands and they usually are well attended.
I’m sure some folks will want pictures. I’ll see what I can do but don’t want to come off as a weirdo. Lol




Yeah I doubt my wife would approve of me going to look for anything. I have seen some stuff though just not to this extent at a rock show. You from this area?I bet I know half a dozen or more that will go to this. Fayettenam has an active fet scene for sure. Should be fun and full of nice people. I doubt anything too strange will be on display unless you go looking for it.
It's not as though they'll start randomly whipping you or anything.
My next gig
I’m excited yet scared lol
Fetish dress code?
Positive thing is the guy who sets up these shows does a good job promoting and taking care of the bands and they usually are well attended.
I’m sure some folks will want pictures. I’ll see what I can do but don’t want to come off as a weirdo. Lol