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What’s up with this?

Sounds to me like he got a different bass player and he doesn’t want to tell you. If the BL calls again tell him you blew out your knee and you’re not available. If he calls again tell him you’re recovering from knee replacement surgery and won’t be able to play standing up any more.
 
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While maybe true to an extent, I wouldn't necessarily try to change too much. Sometimes a band needs someone to care too much. I bet you would be a much better BL than this guy you are dealing with.
It’s not really my mindset to not care about what I’m doing or involved in, otherwise why do it or get involved.
But I think his point was to not take my caring beyond where it needs to be. And I get that!
I should start my own band, again, and move forward with it. But I still play every Sunday.
 
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Don't tell him you'll never work for him again.

Just tell him that the next time he calls you with a date, you won't be able to tell him whether you can do it until 4:45PM the night before the gig.

no no wait

not only should you tell him you'll never work for him again, you turn it around and also tell him that *he'll* never work in this town again!

yeah! take that, guy
 
Sounds to me like he got a different bass player and he doesn’t want to tell you. If the BL calls again tell him you blew out your knee and you’re not available. If he calls again tell him you’re recovering from knee replacement surgery and won’t be able to play standing up any more.
:laugh:! I’m not going to play his game, but I see your point.
 
I’m here and setup. BL hasn’t arrived yet, but it’s early. I think we start in an hour.
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We just finished our first set! Nice crowd, too. An almost full house.
Sometimes (often, in fact) the reality ends up not being as bad as what we anticipate.

I hate being inconvenienced as much as anybody but I think you displayed a lot of class by giving this guy the benefit of the doubt. Care too much? I’m not sure that’s possible. It’s definitely possible to get too invested in something or to get too close to it to see it clearly for what it is but, as you said, you can’t care too much. The whole point of doing it is to care.

Enjoy the rest of the gig!
 
We did two 45-minute sets. A customer paid for our drinks and dinner. Have $200 in my pocket. The owner wants to book us monthly throughout the year.
What started out weird ended on a good note! :thumbsup:
I’m still on the fence about the BL and if I want to take this gig with him.
 
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And of course, more pictures to follow.

Sweet rig BTW :thumbsup:

:)
Thanks! Genzler 350 Combo + BA12-3 stack. Playing a CP Thornton Jazz (passive) 5’er.
Here are some pix between the two sets.
We are setup in the soft enclosed outside area that’s adjacent to the main tavern area. I didn’t want to be too obvious taking these pix. I didn’t want to impose on the privacy of those there.
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