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Who do you hang out with on set breaks?

Hang out?! First I have to make sure the limo drivers are sober. Then I have to check that the promoter wired the gate receipts into my Swiss account. Then I have to get the concierge at the hotel to confirm that the champagne will already be on ice when I get there. Who's going to do all that--the lead singer? As if! I barely have time to finish my neck massage before the second set starts.
 
I try to book 1 hr gigs these days for the same pay as a full night in a club, so,
No breaks.

Stop playing, pack up, go home.

If it’s a theater gig, rest room, then back to the pit.
 
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Great question...
When my band of yesteryear was really trying to grow we told prospective members not to bring family members to the show. And if they did make sure their spouse or whatever understood that they were obligated to meet and greet with people who chose to come see us. As soon as we got off stage for break we walked from table to table to greet folks and thank them for coming.

Fast forward to the band I'm in now. The members all take their break at one table. During the last gig I stopped by a table to talk with two couples who liked my fretless. We had some interesting conversations. They thanked me for taking the time to talk to them. That's what it's all about.