So from what Im hearing it sounds good solo in front of the cab but doesnt translate well in a mix, is that right?
Not necessarily IMHO.
It's more like this. Modern cabs are really well engineered. In contrast, old-school biamping generally involved slapping together random components with a fairly low-grade crossover. In other words, there was not any serious engineering involved to make sure all of the components worked well together to produce any sort synergy.
To build in the engineering, you select the right types of drivers and you use a speaker processor that allows you to precisely tailor the frequency response of each driver. You alos apply a bit of delay to phase align the drivers, so they integrate well through the crossover region.
So if you have the skills, money, and time, you can build a biamp rig that will sound outstanding. But since modern passive cabs are so good, it's probably not really worth it.
For the record I have run 5 or 6 biamp rigs. The only one that left we wanting used a BBE 383 preamp, which is I bought because it was super cheap. The sound was not bad, but it was not great. However, to be fair the speakers I used were old junky PA cabs, and the preamp/crossover and power amp I used were new, but entry level.
I currently own a mk1 GK 700RB/112 combo and also a pair of older GK 2000RB heads, which have a variable crossover and two power amps. IMHO these are still very good sounding amps.
The limiting factor in the GK combo is the way the speaker is tuned. It tends to sound sort of loose and wooly down low, which is the opposite of what I prefer. If I elevate the cab by at least 18", IMHO it sounds way better/less woolly.
For comparison, my last touring rig used primarily an Eden D210XLT pushed by 250W. The Eden had significantly more headroom and punch than the GK combo, and it sounded tighter and more focused down low. But I struggled to get the nice smooth high mids I like. The Eden tends to have sort of a crunchy quality in the high mids. The GK combo was too loose down low for my taste, but the mids and highs were way more HiFi and smooth.
My intended point is neither was perfect.