This argument is moot for me. According to the people I've played with I have a good ear, and I learned to read when I started playing bass so I've been set from the start. The best, most fun, and most rewarding (in terms of the music played, the vibe of the place, the people I met and played with, etc) times for me have the ones that required some sort of reading. They've also been the most paying gigs, which is a pretty good bonus if you ask me. I've found that the most interesting people to jam with are those that can read and are used to playing anything thrown at them; in other words, people who have everything covered rather than just one facet of being a musician. It might be different in your neck of the woods, but we're all just talking from experience anyway so yeah.
If you don't want to read, don't. If it isn't in your part of the musical world, don't. If the musicians you admire don't read and you want to follow them, don't learn. As for me, I find it to be incredible interesting. The people I want to be like and the musical settings I want to be a part of involve reading. You can get a ton of feel out of a chart or score; I find that the best musicians are the ones that can make a chart feel like it's their own original piece through the way they perform.
Also, this might not be important to some but if you can read, you're basically adding another whole set of literature of music that you can learn. So, by default, if you are interested in learning anything you can find (which is what I am), you're only adding to the amount of stuff you can learn by learning to read. Obviously if you know you wouldn't be interested in that stuff don't bother, though.
If you don't want to read, don't. If it isn't in your part of the musical world, don't. If the musicians you admire don't read and you want to follow them, don't learn. As for me, I find it to be incredible interesting. The people I want to be like and the musical settings I want to be a part of involve reading. You can get a ton of feel out of a chart or score; I find that the best musicians are the ones that can make a chart feel like it's their own original piece through the way they perform.
Also, this might not be important to some but if you can read, you're basically adding another whole set of literature of music that you can learn. So, by default, if you are interested in learning anything you can find (which is what I am), you're only adding to the amount of stuff you can learn by learning to read. Obviously if you know you wouldn't be interested in that stuff don't bother, though.