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Anthony Bourdain died

I was stunned and heavily saddened by the news of Anthony Bourdain's suicide. Like many, I have been captivated by his vivid and genuine personality, gritty style, and wonderful storytelling ability. From his beginnings on "A Cook's Tour", to his latest "Parts Unknown", I have been thoroughly entertained, increasingly educated, and often enlightened. Although he is known mostly as a chef, Bourdain reached well beyond just the culinary world with his most recent shows. "Parts Unknown", in particular, used food and drink as a vehicle to introduce viewers to the history and culture of places most of us know nothing about. I especially liked that his travels weren't about clean and polished tourist attractions, and the very finest restaurants (although there were doses of that), but largely about real-world people with real-world problems, eating in their own kitchens or local gathering places. Above all else, I found his presentations to be genuine and human, which was refreshing in an increasingly plastic world. Also, "Kitchen Confidential" is the last (non-technical) book I have read from cover-to-cover...an embarrassingly long time ago. Bourdain had a big hand in inspiring me to develop into the mediocre home cook I am today. Thank you, Anthony Bourdain. RIP.

From my own experience, as the son of a suicide victim, it's often impossible to know the internal demons people struggle with. These struggles are often hidden by smiles and assurances that things are okay. It's only afterwards that we finally recognize (or acknowledge) some of the signs of their internal battle.
 
Watching his episode on Quebec from 2013 right now and in one of the segments he jokingly mentioned hanging himself and then made a comment about needing the hotel room.

Coincidence I know but just really weird too.

I'm a big fan of his shows and this is a shocker. Sucks.
 
An expected side effects of drug use and alcoholism - an early death.
This is strictly a guess, but I would not be surprised if he found out he had a terminal disease and decided it would be futile to fight it. But depression can be overwhelming, Robin Williams being another example.
 
I am very conflicted about this. I've been watching the guy on TV since No Reservations on the Travel Channel. You would think that a guy that spent so much time finding the good in things, empathizing, and putting himself in other people's shoes would have a strong sense of himself. When a guy like Cornell or Bennington do themselves in, you can see the "tortured artist" in it. Hunter S Thompson was always a loose canon; impulsive and maniacal. Bourdain seemed like he had is stuff together. Why would someone that took so much joy out of squeezing the hedonistic juice out of life just cash in his chips?
Seems like such a waste.

It just goes to show that happiness comes from within. One can search the world over and live a life many can only dream of, and still not find it.
 
It just goes to show that happiness comes from within. One can search the world over and live a life many can only dream of, and still not find it.
That's sort of what I am saying. He seemed like a guy that was in touch with himself, comfortable with who he was, and enjoyed what he did. He wasn't hiding from his demons. He had this Zen vibe that made you think he was ok. It is just sad that even a guy that spilled his guts for a living was still holding on to something that was poisoning him.
 
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Ironically enough, I've been feeling pretty down lately.
I'm in one of my down-cycles. It comes & goes & right now it's on me like a damp blanket.

Here's where the irony comes, I've been watching No Reservations & Parts Unknown to cheer myself up.
The episodes about Thailand were great & also the one about Jeddah, KSA.

On the topic of suicide, it's not that bad with celebs, because veterans are killing themselves at an average rate of 22/day.

When I call the V.A., which I will tomorrow, the first message is asking if you need help & it finalizes by giving the suicide hotline number.
 
That's sort of what I am saying. He seemed like a guy that was in touch with himself, comfortable with who he was, and enjoyed what he did. He wasn't hiding from his demons. He had this Zen vibe that made you think he was ok. It is just sad that even a guy that spilled his guts for a living was still holding on to something that was poisoning him.

I checked out your previous post as well. Thanks for those two posts as they sum up well how I feel about this.
It feels to me like in some cases, the more someone puts out there how fine, OK, great, etc they are, the more likely it may be they are hiding from or masking something they think is 'wrong' about themselves.

My case in point is myself. For years I lived what one may have perceived as a great life. Always going somewhere cool, always doing something fun, buying cool stuff and sharing with my friends, laughing, smiling, carrying on about how well things were going for me, always out and about at social events or hosting them. When the lights went out and I was alone, I was tormented mentally by how much of a jerk I thought I really was, how out of control my life was feeling to me, and how better off the world would likely be without some faker like me around. While I never tried to kill myself, I was careless at times with my life and sort of hoped maybe it would end up killing me, or if I did die at any point that would be a good thing.
Now I am not saying everyone living a great life is mentally tormented like I was, but the more often I read about the suicide of people who appear to have it together, it takes me back to those dark years of my life and I wonder if they felt like I did.
Yeah, I know. I wasn't famous. But still, in a way I think I can identify with the plight of folks who choose to end their life.

-Mike
 
Youtube is going conspiracy theory nuts about it. His father was a music industry exec and his mother an editor of a news rag. His outspoken opposition to many many political figures, and his high connections across many walks are where the theorists focus.

Personally, being a career line cook (twice "the Chef", thrice a sous) his shows and books meant a lot to me. If I have any heroes in my chosen passion for my work he would have been the top. No BS, told it like it is, no fear (well none apparent anyway).

One day I will track down the tv show that barely aired based on his book, Kitchen Confidential. I think two episodes made it to air. I liked them, but can see how niche demographic it was.

I will certainly miss his work. RIP, Brother.
 
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Ironically enough, I've been feeling pretty down lately.
I'm in one of my down-cycles. It comes & goes & right now it's on me like a damp blanket.

Here's where the irony comes, I've been watching No Reservations & Parts Unknown to cheer myself up.
The episodes about Thailand were great & also the one about Jeddah, KSA.

On the topic of suicide, it's not that bad with celebs, because veterans are killing themselves at an average rate of 22/day.

When I call the V.A., which I will tomorrow, the first message is asking if you need help & it finalizes by giving the suicide hotline number.

Here's hoping you will be OK. If I can help in any way, let me know!
 

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