Interesting stuff.As a multi-instrumentalist (including bass) and professional sound engineer working at a performing arts center, I'd like to say what I think about your comments, but I'd most likely be banned.
If I can't be found after someone's set, it's usually because I'm fixing something.
Play it loud indeed. Nothing like 1000 watts of bass to contend with. The best reason I can see to mic a bass cabinet is to flip the phase on the mic in hopes of calming it down a bit.
I always offer bassists a choice of DI, Mic or both. 90 percent of them ask for a DI out of their amp, which is usually a small combo. Just like the idiot guitarist who has to have a triple rectifier blasting and destroying the house mix, bassists who insist on bringing huge rigs aren't doing themselves or the band they are playing with any favors.
Chances are, if you're bringing anything larger than a combo bass amp into a venue that's smaller than 1000 seats, your not in the house at all. And that's because the sound engineer had no choice, if they wanted a balanced mix. What really sucks is when you have the bass completely off everywhere and it's still killing the mix.
Any competent sound person will have time to mic up a cab if needed, but that's not the real-world situation most have to deal with. In a small venue (we have a 180 seat black box and 900 seat main theater; both which qualify as a small venue), you can't just keep turning up everything to overcome the roar of a huge bass rig. So before you blame it on the sound engineer, maybe you should reconsider bringing that behemoth into the corner stage at a 90 seat venue.
If you can't get your sound without a multi-cabbed high wattage system, maybe your sound isn't worth getting.
I find engineers usually are telling the guitarist to turn down at all the club venues I do. Such as every club gig I do, every time.
I find the chain of “too loud” usually goes: Guitar, followed closely after by drummer, then vocal wedges go up, at this stage keys are gone, I give up on BVs, then I might turn up a bit.
I do a small club with backline (SVT, 810) and sadly FOH spill is so loud it’s needed, along with Hearos. Everywhere is “special” and “different”...