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Best awkward compliment you've gotten

A fellow bassist from a friendly local band I'd known for 2 or 3 years came up to me between sets, smiling.

I knew that this other bassist had been playing for about 4 years, was self-taught, and played originals only - quite effectively. I had been playing for about 16 years - lots of covers; lots of originals.

"Wow. You're really good on the bass! ...better than me, even."
 
this kid told me "as a big fan of bass-forward music like 311 it was really cool to see someone playing the way you did". I'm not really a fan of 311 but I know he meant well.

Another time I was playing in the support act at a show at The Sylvee in WI. A dad that had brought his kid to the show said he loved my playing and noted a couple of techniques I used. Then he gestured to the bassist in the headliner and said "you weren't just pounding the root like this guy". Not realizing that the bass player for the headliner was a friend of mine and that's what the band's sound called for?