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The way I see it, unless you’re singing lead you go with the singer’s choices.
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Not what I got from the OP. He's new and doesn't know the rules. He's also smart enough to know something was amiss and start a thread to get some perspective.
I wouldn't characterize his attitude as "bad" - just clueless. Everybody here was new once.
The OP came here for advice and instead he got a heaping portion of TB snark. And it’s now degraded into three pages of everyone slapping themselves on the back for handling it so well.
As I got it, he answered a guys ad, immediately told him the songs he had wouldn't work before even playing NOTE 1 to see how this guys band even was (which lets be honest they probably sucked anyhow).as i got it, he he did like some of the songs and may have liked alll of them but felt some wouldn't work for an audience.
The OP came here for advice and instead he got a heaping portion of TB snark. And it’s now degraded into three pages of everyone slapping themselves on the back for handling it so well.
While I agree with many of the responses I imagine the OP "got the point" by now after 11 pages....
OP checked out a long time ago. He didn't seem to be buying the good advice given. Oh well.
The OP came here for advice and instead he got a heaping portion of TB snark. And it’s now degraded into three pages of everyone slapping themselves on the back for handling it so well.
While I agree with many of the responses I imagine the OP "got the point" by now after 11 pages....
Good advice no doubt, but *damn* 11 pages of this???
I won't play a bunch of songs I don't like. I play for fun and $$ is just an added bonus. So I wouldn't even bother fighting with BL about song choices. If I don't like the list then I don't audition.
Are you reading his responses? He never got the point as far as I could see. Of course that doesn't mean the thread has to die. He'll go back to running/not trying to run an originals band and others will chime in about the original topic.
So let it be written, so let it be done.
Pretty timely, huh?
I see no reason to withhold benefit of the doubt in the OP's case. He's given me no reason to disbelieve what he's saying.Really?
No offense, it seems like you're taking this one side of the story as gospel.
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Yup right here ^ kind like showing up the first day to a new job and telling the boss the way you would like to see the company run.If some guy wanted to audition for my band, and led off by critiquing my set list, he’d end up in the nope pile...fast. And I’d spread the word, too.
I have a gig. You NEED a gig. Your leeway to critique is minimal.
When you ask for advice... you get advice.