Is it wrong to think you're unattractive?

[champbassist]

Hi. I'm refreshing my social world and updating my wardrobe. I could really use your help finding a {insert article(s) of clothing here} to update my look. I like to do {insert two or three things you really enjoy}. Can you suggest some {repeat article(s) of clothing} that will look great and that I'll be able to wear for a while?

She should now engage and start asking you about your social world in order to help you select clothing. It's likely (although not guaranteed) that she'll comment about fun stuff you mention. When she does, that's a clue that she's a little bit interested. Then you can ask her questions back.

When you make your purchase (and for that much help you do need to buy at least one thing), don't buy everything you wanted. Randomly go back to the store to scope out when she's working and talk to her about the things she helped you pick out. Compliment her taste on the thing you bought. Buy another piece from her recommendations. Then ask her for coffee after she's off work.

And that's what you say to the girl in the mall without getting her fired.

Can you pwetty please be my coach?

 

[scorpionldr]

Just going by things you've said yourself, trying not to read more into it. Reread some of your comments, you might see some interesting things you know about yourself but haven't paid attention to.

Yea I'm realizing I'm two or more different people lol

 

[scorpionldr]

Can you pwetty please be my coach?

I'm probably the better model for a student anyhow considering my deficit. Some day there will be a thread

 

[Ziltoid]

Can you pwetty please be my coach?

You guys back off.

I'm clearly the one she will coach.

 

[6jase5]

I'm way too attractive to relate to this thread. At 6'5, 210lbs of hulking muscle with size 14 feet....I'm a women's walking wet dream.


(That sound you heard in the background was my wife hitting her head falling over from laughing. Just before she fell she mumbled something that sounded like...."big feet and only big shoes for you pal"....not sure what that means)

 

[sloasdaylight]

Hey guys, your e-rections are showing.

 

[Sgt. Rock]

Any guy who takes a woman's advice on how to be more attractive to women deserves the loneliness he will endure as a result.

 

[klejst]

I suppose it's not wrong...however I am sure in thinking that it is really killing your inner self confidence.

 

[Sgt. Rock]

Heh. There are other women here. I'm friends with them. I would not go so far as to suggest that my viewpoint is anywhere near aligned with theirs. I'm the least "typical" woman you'll ever know. Just ask anyone in TBOT; they'll tell you. I'm far too blunt to be a "normal" woman.

There's this that goes along with it, as well. We are women. We have no idea what we want. We absolutely will be angry if we don't get it. Our drug of choice, in most cases, is attention (personally, I prefer basses, electronics, and shoes, but that's a whole other thread). We want a guy to want us. When he does, we don't want him to want us that much. There's a formula for how to keep us interested - Maki explains that part far better than I do.

The fact that you understand this must cause more frustration than the underlying issue itself.

 

[Ziltoid]

Hey guys, your e-rections are showing.

That's the pr0n, it has nothing to do with this thread.

 

[scorpionldr]

Hey guys, your e-rections are showing.

Because I'm willing to listen to the advice of a complete stranger? Lol

Any guy who takes a woman's advice on how to be more attractive to women deserves the loneliness he will endure as a result.

Of course it's more fulfilling to sit and find no answer whatsoever

 

[champbassist]

You guys back off.

I'm clearly the one she will coach.

I'm a weaker student, I need more help

 

[Sgt. Rock]

Of course it's more fulfilling to sit and find no answer whatsoever

Do you really think your choices are limited to asking women for advice or finding no answers at all?

 

[scorpionldr]

Do you really think your choices are limited to asking women for advice or finding no answers at all?

Well considering I've been back and forth to the drawing board about four billion times its more related to understanding them

 

[MatticusMania]

Well considering I've been back and forth to the drawing board about four billion times its more related to understanding them

If you went to the drawing board 400 times a day, at 28 years old, you'd only have been to that drawing board 4 million 88 thousand times.

I think your numbers are off.

 

[scorpionldr]

If you went to the drawing board 400 times a day, at 28 years old, you'd only have been to that drawing board 4 million 88 thousand times.

I think your numbers are off.

Infinity can not be known, instead can only be felt.

When somebody asks what you want in a relationship after your love life has been practically run over by a bull dozer, how do you respond? With '****ing around'? Or 'to get married'?

 

[sloasdaylight]

Infinity can not be known, instead can only be felt.

When somebody asks what you want in a relationship after your love life has been practically run over by a bull dozer, how do you respond? With '****ing around'? Or 'to get married'?

"A friend".

You need friends right now more than you need a relationship.

 

[scorpionldr]

"A friend".

You need friends right now more than you need a relationship.

Well a friend is a product of a relationship there buddy

 

[MatticusMania]

Well a friend is a product of a relationship there buddy

But a friend falls under neither of your two distinctions.

Infinity can not be known, instead can only be felt.

Who said anything about infinity?

 

[sloasdaylight]

You know what I'm talking about, don't get snotty.