+1 Given your self described background, you would be one of the last people I would recommend trying to spec a cab out with a custom builder.
No offense to anyone here, including my buddy Greenboy, who I'm sure has designed a beautiful cab.
My feeling is, if you want Don to make a cab to Greenboy's exact specifications, then he should be given the exact specifications, including the exact brand and tuning of the crossover. He would have no problem with that. However, if you just spec out a basic cab design, guess what, Don will put his 'stamp and approach' on it as would any other builder. That might be a positive or a negative to your ears, depending on your tone goals.