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Moral dilemma...

My mom ordered a small inexpensive hand vacuum cleaner and the company sent her the large "everything" expensive vacuum cleaner. She called them several times trying to return it and get the one she ordered. Finally she was exhausted trying to correct their mistake and just kept the expensive one and reordered the small one. She made every effort, but they could not figure it out. She really liked that new one she basically got for free and had no guilt about it.

To me, this is a very different situation. Your mom made a good faith effort to let the company know that they had sent her an item that she had not paid for. There was no dis-honesty on her part, in any way.

I would keep the vacuum with a clean conscience, and use it.

edg
 
Superfunk; if things are really that tight, and it wasn't budgeted for, it shouldn't have been purchased in the first place.

This is a good point, and absolutely true. What I had in mind, though, was if something extraordinary came up immediately afterward, like really heavy hospital bills or something along those lines that completely drained my budget. I would still end up paying them for the goods I got, I just wouldn't sacrifice my (or my family's) ability to eat or sleep under a roof to do it. I would budget until I could pay them.
 
This is a good point, and absolutely true. What I had in mind, though, was if something extraordinary came up immediately afterward, like really heavy hospital bills or something along those lines that completely drained my budget. I would still end up paying them for the goods I got, I just wouldn't sacrifice my (or my family's) ability to eat or sleep under a roof to do it. I would budget until I could pay them.

Ooooh, gotcha now. I mis-read ya.
 
OK, now that the dilemma is over......how is the project coming along? Are you taking before, during, and after photos?

Since I am not in construction anymore, I am totally into the remodeling projects around the house for myself and others. It's almost like an addiction.

-Mike
 
A douche I am then :(. I feel the need to state that I have not and do not plan to ever steal from an individual, rich or poor. Does that get me any points back? I do, however, dream of robbing banks... Yeah, I know I just lost whatever points I may have gained :atoz:.
Oh now, don't use that sad face after posting something cold-blooded like this...
Better is a relative term. I could argue that the better man is the won who works a fortunate situation to his advantage placing him in better, however slight, financial standing than he was previously.
Kwesi, I think you're looking at this too hypothetically (if that makes sense) through the detachment of the Internet. I like to think that if push came to shove and you were really in this situation, you'd do the right thing.
 
So, if you had been overcharged $250, you would have chalked it up to good luck for Home Depot and been on your merry way?

Quite the contrary, I'd chalk it up to bad luck on my end and raise a fuss till I got my $250 back :D.

Oh now, don't use that sad face after posting something cold-blooded like this...

Kwesi, I think you're looking at this too hypothetically (if that makes sense) through the detachment of the Internet. I like to think that if push came to shove and you were really in this situation, you'd do the right thing.

You might be right about that. But, I still contend that if a store forgot to charge me $250 for a particular item there would be many a "HEELZ YEAH!" yelled that day after which I would buy a Iron Ether Proton :p.
 
We already knew the outcome since you posted about it, if you were not going to go back, I doubt you would have posted about it. But I suspect that you felt you needed a little bit of positive validation for coughing up the 250, as likley the manager probably didn't care or even figured you for a chump, likely hates his job and his stupid boss and Home Depot.

However, there is one major burning issue that remains to be 'eliminated'.

This 250 dollar item, it was the toilet? Right?


Correct

If you are ever in town you may use my free
and clear toliet
 
Quite the contrary, I'd chalk it up to bad luck on my end and raise a fuss till I got my $250 back :D.



You might be right about that. But, I still contend that if a store forgot to charge me $250 for a particular item there would be many a "HEELZ YEAH!" yelled that day after which I would buy a Iron Ether Proton :p.

Sorry. I used to think you a good, level-headed person. I have to rethink that now :hmm: