There is no problem if everyone around you is into that. But this thread is about someone seeking an escape from that.
They don't care if your amp speaks to you when fed enough power and takes life, they just want a solution to speak to a band mate about excessive volume in their own mix.
There is a problem though with what you advocate, a really big one - but if all the advice and warnings in this thread and on these forums hasn't grabbed your attention yet.....
what am i advocating and what is the issue? if its regarding playing loudly i always take into account bandmates opinions/feelings, sound quality, and protect my hearing. what base am i, or the others who are on this side of the fence, not covering?