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People who don't give "likes"

What I often do, is read through an entire thread, and then make a pithy statement that aligns with the prevailing sentiment :thumbsup:.

Once my post has had 10 or more "likes", I'll wait 4 or 5 days, before I come back and secretly edit my post - changing it to the most offensive, politically charged, rant imaginable.

It's surprising, some of the people who seem to agree with that point of view :rollno: .
 
The other day I was scrolling through a thread where a lot of people were pitching in to help a member, and I was looking at the likes to see what advice people agreed with most.

It occurred to me that the OP didn't acknowledge any of the feedback with a like.

I then realized that I don't believe I ever saw that particular member "like" a post :).

Liking a post is absolutely not a requirement for TB participation, but to me seems like the, "polite?" thing to do?

I started me wondering about the personality of such people, cuz I'm interested in such things. Are these the same people who never say thank you when someone holds a door for them? Are these selfish people? Completely self absorbed? Are these people who are full of pride? Are these people who simply hate the idea of "likes" on the internet?

I don't know.

Do you "like" posts.

Why or why not?

Do you have any thoughts or theories regarding people who never "like" posts?

Thought this might be interesting to kick around.
I usually like a post if I agree or they save me the hassle of having to post the same thing.
 
Y'all should really like on Facebook or Instagram if you like something. It's good for the content provider
Yep, a band may get booked that spot based on 1,000+ likes on FB, as opposed to only having a few dozen.

The times the are a changin'. Send a digital link to your music, website, FB page, etc... they'll prob listen to 30 seconds each of 2 songs, look at some pictures on your website, & open up your artist FB page to see how many likes you've gathered (hoping that around a 1/4 of those people show up.)
 
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Sometimes I'm generous with the likes, sometimes I'm not. It depends on my mood to a degree, but I also struggle with liking something I find substantial even if I don't agree with it. I also can't stand the rare occasions when people beg for likes--nope, not gonna encourage that.

The NAMM thread is interesting. I started out only liking the posts that featured instruments I was interested in, but then I started trying to take the time to like all of the OP's contributions, because he busted his butt taking pics of pretty much everything bass-related--and commenting on it--at the entire show! That kind of effort deserves far more likes than a rant somebody (like me) typed up. Here's a link, show wintremute some love! Winter NAMM 2018 (ultra Pic-heavy)
 
I then realized that I don't believe I ever saw that particular member "like" a post :).
If it's who I think it is you're referring to, I am also noting that that member has not weighed in on this thread.

Do you "like" posts.
I do. However, I do it just because I think that poster is keen and I want them to like me too. This is why I like everything @slobake posts. And @Joe Nerve. And a bunch of other cats and kitties, daddyo.

Actually I do it for the same reason that most have already said but I also throw in a pity like every now and again for those poor slobs who haven't got a clew how to spel or grammer good.

Do you have any thoughts or theories regarding people who never "like" posts?
No. Well, sorta. It takes effort to never like, I think. I mean the button is there and the list of likers is there, so I think you have to make a conscious effort to not do it, so I think it's done with a purpose. I don't know what the purpose is - maybe consistency - but I think you don't like because you don't want to.
 
The other day I was scrolling through a thread where a lot of people were pitching in to help a member, and I was looking at the likes to see what advice people agreed with most.

It occurred to me that the OP didn't acknowledge any of the feedback with a like.

I then realized that I don't believe I ever saw that particular member "like" a post :).

Liking a post is absolutely not a requirement for TB participation, but to me seems like the, "polite?" thing to do?

I started me wondering about the personality of such people, cuz I'm interested in such things. Are these the same people who never say thank you when someone holds a door for them? Are these selfish people? Completely self absorbed? Are these people who are full of pride? Are these people who simply hate the idea of "likes" on the internet?

I don't know.

Do you "like" posts.

Why or why not?

Do you have any thoughts or theories regarding people who never "like" posts?

Thought this might be interesting to kick around.
You know who I was referring to. So does he :).
Oh man I tried to walk away quietly but I just couldnt so I must ask. In all of TalkBass there must be a few thousand members posting and liking or not liking. Not trying to be a wise guy but!, Is there only one?. Is it possible without mentioning names that there are two people that have scoured all of TalkBass investigating and have narrowed it down to the only and exact one?. How did you arrive at this revelation?. There are a few on a thread I have followed that never once offered up a like on that thread alone. Are you only looking at one thread?.:confused:
 
Oh man I tried to walk away quietly but I just couldnt so I must ask. In all of TalkBass there must be a few thousand members posting and liking or not liking. Not trying to be a wise guy but!, Is there only one?. Is it possible without mentioning names that there are two people that have scoured all of TalkBass investigating and have narrowed it down to the only and exact one?. How did you arrive at this revelation?. There are a few on a thread I have followed that never once offered up a like on that thread alone. Are you only looking at one thread?.:confused:
Well....

Some people stand out more than others. Especially when they're quick with snarky, negative, or challenging responses.

@D M C might be thinking of someone else. If he wants to pm me, for fun, I'll verify whether or not the thread was inspired by that person.

I'll add, when you spend as much time around these parts as some of us :), you start noticing trends and habits. Not sayin that's necessarily a good thing.
 
Well....

Some people stand out more than others. Especially when they're quick with snarky, negative, or challenging responses.

@D M C might be thinking of someone else. If he wants to pm me, for fun, I'll verify whether or not the thread was inspired by that person.

I'll add, when you spend as much time around these parts as some of us :), you start noticing trends and habits. Not sayin that's necessarily a good thing.
I dont spend a ton of time on TB but Im pretty dialed into details so I definitely connect certain actions and behaviours in with certain members, I see patterns. Its associated by memory.
 
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Oh man I tried to walk away quietly but I just couldnt so I must ask. In all of TalkBass there must be a few thousand members posting and liking or not liking. Not trying to be a wise guy but!, Is there only one?. Is it possible without mentioning names that there are two people that have scoured all of TalkBass investigating and have narrowed it down to the only and exact one?. How did you arrive at this revelation?. There are a few on a thread I have followed that never once offered up a like on that thread alone. Are you only looking at one thread?.:confused:

:)

We were thinking of the same person.