This is becoming a discussion betwenn a husband and wife who are not hearing each other. The Professionals all say, and many hobbiests are agreeing, is that notation is the top, it's the coloseum, while for many others, who love music, but have other professional duties that limit the time we can devote to the muse, tabs are a shortcut. We know how to read music, BUT IT ISN'T OUR MAIN JOB. I am slower at reading notation, because I spend many hours a day doing other things that are very important. Why can't we let both exist side by side, and say if you want your paychecks to come from music, it is better to learn notation fluidly, but if you love to play as a soul satisfier, it is OK to peek at tabs while still learning to read music. Why can't we all get along?