Even worse, a former guitarist would get there more than an hour early, setup and head to the bar, and start flirting. Soundcheck time? He hadn't even turned it on, or checked signal, tuning....To be fair, I was halfway joking with my earlier post. I did lug subs up stairs, but I wasn't the only one doing it for that band. We all pitched in to get everything ready for the most part. (It was a club gig, club was on the second floor of a building in downtown Seattle, they had two staircases - one for guests and one for staff, both awful. But we got everything in and out as a group. The subs weren't even all that bad - it was the stage pianos.) That was a good experience even though it was pretty unorganized, but I've definitely been in other situations where there's less dedication to the group cause (or sometimes people just prefer to handle their personal stuff even if it's a slower overall process).
And yes - not everybody can lug heavy stuff, but I think that everybody notices when people help in any way that they can. From the same group, I remember one of the new singers wrapping cables instead of sitting idle as we were packing and unpacking - she was actively looking for ways to help, and that has stuck with me. I also remember another person who sang with us who would never have thought to lift a finger to do anything, and asking would have just felt pointless. Neither of them would be up to lugging large speakers around, but you could tell where the intent was and where it wasn't. Of course, this isn't just singers - you find this with the musicians who get their little corner situated, and then start noodling at high volume instead of helping get the rest of the band set up. So the effort is noticed, and it's always appreciated.
Mmm yeah