Also, thanks to everyone for sharing the contest. I just ordered the mailers so we can ship fairly soon.
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Morning gents. Busy weekend, band drama, followed up by blowing stuff up with guns to ease that stress.
Let me run this by you all. (drama)
So right now we rent a practice space. It is pretty decent, size, location, clean, safe, bathrooms on site, 24 hour access. The room costs $200 a month, we each pay $50 that comes directly out of gig money. It is a pretty chill place, and there is usually someone there from the band either jamming with a friend or two or solo. This isnt an issue as most of the people there are known quantities/friends of everyone in the band.
So the drama stems from my singer/guitard telling me he has put together a side project, and they are going to be running out of the practice room. After asking him who is in the band, the only one of them I know is a cat I would never trust with anything that holds value to me. He is a straight up dBag, the rest of the guys I dont know.
So as I am getting uneasy, I just say to him, "Hey, cool side project, but I am not comfortable with a second band of guys we dont know running out of the space. I am not cool leaving my gear here under those circumstances." He responds with a "That's your issue, but this is still happening."
We then proceed to get in to me saying that if they are going to practice there that band is responsible for $100 rent a month. He counters with they are not a money making band and not going to leave much gear there. They want to use our PA and amps, I tell him that isnt cool. Seeing as I wont be leaving any gear there, I want my $50 back I just paid for the month. yadda yadda yadda...
TL;DR
I dont want to leave my gear in a practice space I pay for, so another band can make use of both on my dime, and potentially damage equipment my band needs. I dont think that is unreasonable. Am I way out in left field on this?
You are totally in the right, and not d-bagging at all. If anything, your guitar player is totally d-bagging, and you need to tell this guy to GTFO of your band, or walk yourself. If you let this happen, bad will ensue. This will be just the first step in your band's disintegration, in my opinion. He is showing utter contempt for you by saying it's going to happen whether it's cool with you or not. guitarists are a dime a dozen, tell him to walk.
I got all my stuff out of there, and told him I would not be leaving anything in the space anymore. That really pissed him off because even though he told me, "no one will touch your stuff..." He had also previously told me that the bass player in the other band doesnt actually have a gigable rig. So I can already see how that will play out. At this point I am just going to show up with a DI pedal, its not even worth hauling my gear there for practice at this point.
You are doing it right. Time to start looking for another gig, or have a full band meeting, and let the other guys know what's going on, and what your take on this is. I would not be surprised if you told us that he's already spoken with the other guys and said what a d-bag you are for doing this.
If someone practices regularly in a space, they pay rent. Doesn't matter if they are leaving gear there or not.
Discussion is over.
We do everything in house. Our guitarist had a degree in audio engineering as well as his own studio.
So we aren't the best example as to cost breakdowns.
Yeah, CL400 - you're doing the right thing. Tell your guitarist to let the owner of space know that bands that don't make a lot money shouldn't have to pay rent. Good move getting your stuff out of there, it would get used and it would get damaged.
+1 to this. my guitarist has been recording for years and has awesome mics and preamps. it makes life much easier when you can record in house.
Problem is this band is an earner. Gig this coming weekend, friday and saturday night. I personally should be making $350, plus drinks/food. Just because we earn, doesnt mean that our space should be used for free by others. It doesnt mean my gear should be up for grabs either.