crazy girl I mentioned. Not as crazy as I thought. But she still occasionally throws up red flags. That said I probably do too, and I still haven't unveiled my life to her hardly at all. We just learned eachothers full names last night.
See that whole, "just learned each other's full names..." part is what makes me think she is still a little off. That said I would say proceed with caution, get your jollies, and try things with her that other girls may have shot you down on. I don't say do that to be an ass hole, but if she hasnt set the terms, then there are none. She knows that too, so take advantage of the opportunity in front of you.
At the same time, I met and saw someone else today, an opera singer who raised no flags. She's very cute and great chatter, but might move out of state post graduation and is Christian. She didn't seem to mind I wasn't and didn't say no to a second date, but how long do I tag team, also knowing one won't last.
Yeah, but is she able and willing to suck the rust off of a ball hitch?
I suspect she will have terms. If you find them acceptable, I would expect her to have issue with #1, I wouldnt tell church girl anything about #1 for that matter. I wouldnt lie about anything, but until there are terms set with church girl, you are once again free of them. In this case though, if things progress to the 4th or more dates, I would tell you that it is a trap to continue seeing both.
Not an *******, but girl 1 also has never explicitly set any terms. She just keeps fugging me and saying I have a great ass. Also that she's interested in ladies too, so worst case I just say surprise I was doing tree some research?
If you cant juggle, then you need to cut ties with one of them. You go to them, keep them out of your place, take them to their places. The sum of trees will never be about you, as much as it is the male fantasy. You are the interchangeable part in that mechanism, two ladies can find any chump to join them.
My ultimate opinion of the situation, is that one of these girls sounds like a GF that you run for a while, and then cut loose. The other sounds like she wants to be wifey material (church girls always do). You just need to decide which is going to work best for you short term, and long term, and where you want to be down the road. While you're in process, wrap it up...
