The struggle is real! My band-in-the-making has jammed with one and had 3-4 flake out before even getting in the room with us. And the guy that did jam wasn't great but now says he wants to play but can't afford his cut of the practice room rent.
True! Drummers are weird folks too. One of the flakes: [this drummer had played funk and gospel and replied to our ad. For doom metal.]
Guitarist: hey we down to jam today?
"Drummer": sure. I need the address of the practice space so I can take the right bus.
G: uh, how exactly are you going to bring a kit on the bus?
D: I have to bring my own kit?
G: uh, yeah.

Then he says he get a ride there with kit in tow. Ok. No prob, then:
D: so is this like a gig or an audition or what?
G: ???? An audition.
Never shows up.

