Hehehe, good question, easy answer

Paid for staying home, every time (although probably not on the couch).
I've had more gigs than I can really handle over the last 5 years, a rare paid night off is just
fine. My gigs are jobs and any artistic fulfilment topped out some time ago. My playing is nothing special though, so a paid night at home practicing (and with my family) beats most gigs for me. I find more personal satisfaction in making progress on some bit of technique that troubles me (and there is plenty

) than a gig in some fleapit I wouldn't otherwise be seen dead in. But the bills don't pay themselves.