This entire thread has been worth the read; so many great points, and ideas, and sadly, a lot of the same stuff that has me ready to retire from playing, five months ahead of schedule. BACKGROUND: I had promised myself to be ready to quit, at 50, and that birthday comes in August. I have been fortunate enough to become a busy weekend warrior -with some weeknight action, too- in the last 5 years. Two years ago, I got in with my current band, which does a lot of "lite" gigs (acoustic guitar, me playing through a Shuttle 3.0 combo, and not much else) in wine bars. These lite gigs gave me a lot of freedom of expression, serving as paid rehearsals for full band shows. 2013 saw us get more into the full band side, and a few lineup changes have served to check the momentum.
I'm ready to hang up the basses, and store the amps, thinking to myself that it is time to work on other things, in my life, and that, if I am meant to keep playing, the situation will have to find me. This thread does not give much encouragement, but I am in a few Rolodexes and contact lists, so one never knows for sure if I am about to play my last gigs, or not.
The end is very near. I had hoped to be able to push this band into the casino tier, but see that it is not likely to happen. I end up showing the keytard a lot of his parts. He was actually the bassist I replaced, having left to deal with external stressors, but is the "attitude" guy in the band, and close buddies with the guitard/BL. I'm the BL's foil, in the literary/musical sense. Imagine Pete Townsend playing dance-pop variety covers from the 70's to now. Yup, I'm the Entwistle figure. The reader may perhaps see why I love those "lite" gigs, since I have a lot more sonic space to work with.
I've been aware that I was nearing this edge, since last summer, but there were a few "bucket list" venues and gigs left to do. We've done some, and will do another (Flicka's, for you locals), on the 22nd, with an outdoor festival, the following day. The April calendar looks like just lite gigs, due to the new drummer's contractual obligations elsewhere. In other words, the timing is right, and the overall situation is certainly providing some signposts, along the way. It won't get any better, once the drummer is unencumbered, in late April. Some beloved venues have shuttered, and most of the cover band musicians in this town are hacks. Most cover bands play the same tired war-horse songs, although ours does strive to be distinctly different, in terms of repertoire. We are not that far off the beaten path, despite my efforts at creative mashups, and less-than-obvious song choices from renowned artists.
Along comes this thread, and any uncertainty that I had about delaying the inevitable has been put to rest. It's been a good ride. Perhaps, as some have hopefully expressed, there will be an uptick in desire to experience live music, but I do not see it happening suddenly. In other words, if I'm done, I'm probably DONE...and I am OK with that.
Sorry to go long-winded. Some of you East Valley locals might wanna PM me, so I can turn your contact info over to the BL, when the bombshell is dropped, later this month. I do plan to keep the exit somewhat open-ended, should a nice gig line up, before my replacement is deemed ready. It is high time that the Chicks at Shows and Hot Singerbabe Club threads had some new blood, anyway. I'll probably still lurk here, now and again.