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What questions do you wish people would stop asking?

"Why no love for [X or Y or Z]?" and variations thereof.

Jeez, if people wanted to talk about their love for X, Y, or Z, they would. They're not obligated to do so because you wish they would. This question just sounds a tad aggrieved, for no really good reason.

Don't get me wrong, this is pretty minor, just a little eye-roller; nothing to get butthurt by or lose sleep over. But the OP did ask....
 
"Do you guys know [some bizarre song we very obviously don't play]? Because I could come up and sing it!"

I had a co-worker friend of mine angerly walk out of my gig because we denied his request to come up and sing. While he was usually a reasonable guy, he had a look of shock and said "did you say No?!?" It's amazing to me how often this question has come up.
 
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"Can y'all do Freebird?"
Had a drunk (in a wine bar, no less) request Pink Floyd. Got pissed when we said no. We were a Fakebook acoustic jazz trio. Seriously, it happened. :meh:

@droo46
But in answer to the original question:
It would be song requests during a gig when your band obviously does not play that genre.
 
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Years ago my main bass was a Steinberger L2, The question was always,. "Hey, What happened to the rest of your bass?.." It ceased being funny after the 1st 500 times.

In the early 1980's I served in the USAF based in N. Ca. I played a series of gigs one Holiday season with a fun pickup band made up of more folks from the base. The lead singer was a super friendly big fellow who was also a fine singer.

Over 20 years later I'm at the Gloucester, Mass 4th of July parade, The Shriners in their little cars signaled the end of the event & as I turned around to exit I notice the fellow standing behind me is the singer from that band,

It was one of those surreal speechless moments when we both realized who each other were!..
This is not a part of the question but goes with previous post, , we were at our gig in South Alabama. We are all in our early 60's. I saw the lead talking to this guy for several minutes. Then the lead walked back, and said "I have not seen him since high school". I said 'cool' but I remembered he did not grow up here. I asked where did you go to HS? He said Miami FL. which is 1000 miles away,,,,,
 
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