All of these statements are equally true of every other genre of music.
This thread is approaching the issue from a strictly musical perspective as far as i can tell, and your point is more philosophical. It doesn't matter to me whether people "like" it or not, it's whether they respect it as a legitimate form of music which consists of high levels of musicianship.
Most of those statements aren't true, sorry. Yeah, there's some crappy, sloppy metal bands, as there are crappy, sloppy bands in any style. that's just a result of being too lazy to practice.
As a general rule, metal musicians play more precisely, more cleanly, and more technically than most other genres, and as far as technical proficiency is concerned, metal is probably the only style or music to rival jazz (imo/ime).
Edit: Metalguy2, I really like that last statement you made about being in a loud, fast, heavy, tight metal band. there's really nothing quite like it, eh?![]()
What? That is ludicrous. Sure some metal bands play precise etc, but to make a blanket statement like that just shows your blind prejudice the other way. I love metal, but in my experience at shows, I have heard far more sloppy metal bands with terrible sound jobs where none of the instruments cut through cleanly, and a vast lack of technical skills than any other genre I regularly watch live. That is my problem with some of the metal bands I hear, its just some wankers who thought they could turn on distortion get subs and scream in a mike. I appreciate the ones who are clear, and I have seen bands that suck all around in every genre, but there is no way I could ever agree with what you said.
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I like metal and appreciate bands that play it well. I don't like all metal, and if I like a song I like it, I don't care what anyone else thinks, I'll listen to it. I have had more bad experiences with quality of music in watching live metal bands than any other genre (disclaimer: I don't go to pop concerts or rap concerts). I'm not being mean, that's just my experience with it. There are some metal bands that I find their lyrics very deep and poetic, and I enjoy them because of that. I have met a whole lot of metal snobs, and I have worked with classical artists (whom some others will say are the biggest snobs but I have found the opposite to be true). It is off-putting. It is like when I played a lot of punk rock for a while, it wasn't enough for me to enjoy some of the genre and playing some of it. I was a poser, because I didn't conform to their non-conformity.

If it works for you, it should be fine with everybody else! Who cares what they think!