Interesting. As a dad bassist, I feel like it’s the opposite. The good ol SR — a 25 year old 1980’s design is practical and light. The white sneakers of the bass world. If dad knows Tang Soo Do or is a low key baller on the court, the sneakers will perform great, but won’t score coolness points.
If dad wants to pose with his P Bass with torts in front of a hip looking brick wall or something, he can look the part. Or buy a Harley. That’s classic cool and maybe has a chance of appearing more “Daddy” than “Dad” to the ladies in the audience.
But it still comes down to the playing. Can the dude sink threes? How is his spinning back kick?
That matters more than the bass. A good Fender and a good Ibanez are both good instruments.