We are talking bass tone not songs. Sure people notice things but really do not care. Especially the bass tone.
Even me. I don't care about the bass player in any bands I pay money to see. Big or small scale acts. I also have never paid or went to see a band because of "The Bass Player" any of the big names that are in the majority of TBer's heros list. I could give a crap, and I love all music especially good songs. We are not that important to the average listener in a song until we screw it up. Truth.
Nuh uh. I can't go there at all. I say that even if the lay audience doesn't usually know
which is the bass part, they'd still miss it if it wasn't there. But further - these days - I think they usually
do know. Especially metal, jazz, and prog audiences.
Decades of Don Kirschner and MTV and rock-n-roll movies and YouTube and live shows with bass intros or bass-only passages must have educated all audiences. They are lay-people, not retards or Luddites.
I can't imagine a bassist who
doesn't care about bassists, and has never gone primarily to see one. That's just absurd. I've gone - and would go - primarily to see singers, guitarists, bassists, and drummers. If I saw The Prodigy, it'd be
only to see their keyboardist/composer. Musicians go to see musicians as well as bands, because we care about
all the components. I find it sad that you apparently never have, and then chose to spend time here confessing your non-belief in your craft and yourself.
If I had money right now, I'd prolly start making offers on some of your gear.