• TalkBass has been independent since 1998. Add your voice.
    Create a free account to reply to discussions, view embedded media, and browse with fewer display ads.
    Join freeLog in
    Want zero display ads or expanded classifieds tools? Compare plans.

Am I diva for not wanting to play for free?

Little background. I'm in my 20s, in my teens I played any gig I could get. Lets say 8 yearsish of non-stop gigging. I have pro-gear and will take the time to learn your songs.

All I ask is minimum you pay for my travel costs (couple bucks for gas and a gourmet meal at a fast food joint) So sure I'll come out for $20 rather than sit at home on my duff.

My friends give me endless hell for this. I don't have much of a day job, I'm building decent contacts and I have plenty of free time to practice on my own.

I've been emailing back and forth about filling in for a show that I can tell there's going to be no people at, 3+ practices and I'll need to lug amps. Today I find out "yeah I can't pay you anything" so I said "Sorry man, I'm not going to take a hit for your gig" I thought I was nice, now this guy is getting snooty.

Am I a jerk or am I just watching my own back? I'm interested to hear how some of you got started and your personal rules on what gigs to take and what ones to not.

Doesn't sound diva-ish at all to me. Don't waste your time with any future communication if you're getting attitude from the guy. If your goal in life is sainthood than play for free.
 
Well, I guess if I take direction from some of the folks here on TB, I need to stop enjoying all of my hobbies unless I get paid to do those hobbies. My hobbies are:

Flying Cessna 172 airplanes
Playing bass guitar
Taking my boat out
Riding off-road and on-street motorcycles

I guess I have to stop letting friends fly with me unless they pay me (even though I would go flying anyway because I love doing it). And I guess I have to stop playing bass in a band unless I get paid to play (even though I love playing music). And I guess I have to stop taking friends out on the boat unless they cough up some money (even though I love being out on the boat). And of course I had better not go motorcycle riding unless someone pays me to do it.

Yeah, I need to stop engaging in these hobbies for the sheer joy of it, and only do them if someone gives me some money. I mean, what the he!! is the matter with me anyway?? Life isn't supposed to be filled with fun, it's supposed to be all business and work related. Yeah, that's it.
 
And playing originals that you love isn't a reason to play a club for free, either.

The truth is (at least here in LA) original bands don't get paid. As an original band, if you want to make money, there are 2 ways to go about it. 1)Pay to Play - meet your ticket sale quota & then some, keep the then some. 2)Have lots of merch that people will want to buy. Venues don't pay original bands a guarantee unless they know the band will bring in a large audience and make a lot of money. When youre in an original band that doesnt play music that caters to a mainstream audience this is no easy task.

I've got absolutely no problem playing for free-but I don't present myself as a hired gun, either.

Thats a big part of it. I don't fill in for other bands (I would if I liked the band and they paid me) but I dont really seek out these types of jobs. I am not really a for hire bassist, as that would require extra work I really dont feel like doing.

Everyone's personal situation is different.

For me, I have a professional career (non-music related) where I already make plenty of money. So when it comes to playing bass, I could care less whether I get paid or not because I play music for the sheer joy of playing music. And I will continue to do that for the remainder of my life. But again, that's my choice. If others choose to insist on being compensated, that is their prerogative and it would be totally inappropriate for me to tell someone else what they should or should not do. And likewise, it is totally inappropriate for someone to tell me what I should or should not do. It's freedom of choice. Too many people have convinced themselves that they are the "all knowing ones" and that what they say is what should be. I just sit back and crack up at such mental masturbation, and think to myself "thank you for the free entertainment!" Like John Lennon sang, "well they give me all kinds of advice, designed to enlighten me."

Great post!

The free market also works like this: If all bands stopped playing for free, then all clubs wanting live music would have to pay bands. And when people stopped going to the clubs that were too cheap to pay bands - because those clubs didn't offer music, while other clubs did offer music - then some of the cheapskate clubs would reconsider whether they should start paying bands, in order to stay competitive.

While this is certainly true, idealism will never prevail.

Folks, if you're playing for "the joy of making music" and not to be compensated, please STAY HOME - you don't need a venue to play for joy/fun/whatever.

But there isnt an audience in the basement...

I disagree. I am happy to play for free (or for gas money) if the music is good, the audience is engaged, and there is some goals involved with the band (bigger venues, recording, etc). It's fun and it is *my right* to do it. If you think less of me for it, that's on you, not me. And yes, I know you're not alone. I've been berated by "professionals" who insist that I, as a pretty good player, am making it harder for "real" musicians to make a living. This strikes me as a "union" mentality that I just don't buy.

But like I said - I'm not play for free if some CW or "Classic Rock" band wants me to sub or even gig regularly - that music is nothing but "work" to me, and I want to be paid for work. Joy? I don't need money for that. But I do need an audience.

I Agree 100%

Sounds like some of you are playing for free just to be pricks.

Thats asinine. Of course, my sole intention of playing for free is to screw over 'professional' musicians. Uh huh. :rolleyes:

I have no problem with others being or wanting to be paid for playing. But Im sorry, I want to play out so Im going to and if you don't like it then thats really on you.
 
Sounds like some of you are playing for free just to be pricks. I'm with Gard and others, it's not union, it's just watching out for other musicians. I don't necessarily rely on it for bills, but with 2 kids it all helps. I am a "professional" player. I went to school, received a degree, incurred expenses, just like many other professionals who choose to be compensated for their time, education and expertise. I doubt many doctors, dentists, sheet rock installers, plumbes, etc. will work for beer. Thanks for your support.

People have to deal with competition in any profession. Deal with it.
 
Originally Posted by SteveC:
"Sounds like some of you are playing for free just to be pricks."

MatticusMania's reply: "Thats asinine. Of course, my sole intention of playing for free is to screw over 'professional' musicians. Uh huh."

LOL!! Yeah, that post cracked me up too! Can you imagine? Just because I play a gig here in California for free, some dude on the east coast isn't going to get a gig????

I say, everyone should just do what they want. If ya wanna charge money, go for it. If ya wanna play for free, go for it. What is most important (at least in my mind) is that ya play music and ya have fun doin it. That's why I do it. And that is the only reason I do it. If that bends the mind of some out there, then I guess they will just have to walk around with a bent mind. Either that, or just get over it and get on with life.
 
I play for the fun of playing.

So do I. I also expect to be paid [with rare exception - as has been noted by several others].

Is there some requirement that you NOT enjoy something if you want to get paid to do it?? When did that become the standard?

If you get a group together to play touch football, because you enjoy it, well yeah, you will not get paid.

However - in that scenario - you are not providing a service to anyone.

If you are in a band and meant to entertain the clientele at a bar, festival, county fair, whatever, you are providing a service, you should be paid, regardless of the fact that you enjoy it.

And certainly if you are a sub/fill in/what have you (with no long term interest in the success/failure of the act), I don’t see why anyone would think you should do that for free.

For those who “play for the love of music, man” and have no need or desire to get paid, well why don’t you stay out of the clubs? Rent a community hall somewhere and put on your own free shows, for the love of it.
 
I've played plenty of gigs for "free". in fact, when we did get paid, if we'd factor in all the hours we would spend on the gig (loading your gear, transpo time, load in, sound check, the gig, load out, transpo time, and loading back into your studio), well, even a $100 bucks for the whole gig wasn't much per hour, but hey,

I do it for the love of it. (of course, this is coming from someone who doesn't gig anymore, at least presently).
 
I think that your particular life situation will also dictate what is proper "compensation".

I have a full time day job, and so I find that the little free time I have is highly valuable for practice and getting better at my instrument.

There are guys that I've played with in the past - and new people I meet - who want me to come play gigs, or start a small group, etc. But sometimes I turn them down, whether I would be getting paid or not, because I don't need the money so much as I need the valuable practice time.

Now, if the musicians are better than me, or they are playing a style that I want to learn - that's a different story. In my situation, proper "compensation" is just plain growing as a musician and I choose my gigs based on that criteria.

Just my .02
 
Not trying to start anything with you, but I hope you realize that your playing for free because you love to play out is making the situation much worse for those of us trying to make a living playing music. Why pay a bassist when they can get guys like you who will play for free? Besides, wouldn't you enjoy playing out that much more if you went home with more cash in your pocket than you started with? Please re think your position on this as it really does hurt working musicians in the long run.

Rocky, I gotta disagree with you. While it may seem that the playing for free hobbyist amateurs are stealing professional gigs, they really are not your competition if you are a real pro.
 
Sounds like some of you are playing for free just to be pricks. I'm with Gard and others, it's not union, it's just watching out for other musicians. I don't necessarily rely on it for bills, but with 2 kids it all helps. I am a "professional" player. I went to school, received a degree, incurred expenses, just like many other professionals who choose to be compensated for their time, education and expertise. I doubt many doctors, dentists, sheet rock installers, plumbes, etc. will work for beer. Thanks for your support.

Yes, that's exactly what I'm doing: Practicing, learning new tunes, schlepping gear - all to be a "prick". :rollno:
 
if we'd factor in all the hours we would spend on the gig (loading your gear, transpo time, load in, sound check, the gig, load out, transpo time, and loading back into your studio), well, even a $100 bucks for the whole gig wasn't much per hour, but hey, I do it for the love of it.

That's my point. I just can't imagine groveling over a few bucks here and a few bucks there. If I were a starving musician, things might be different. But I can only comment from my perspective, and I am fortunate to have a career that allows me the flexibility of enjoying my hobbies without getting paid to enjoy them. IMO, once I "expect" to get paid, it no longer is a hobby for me. It becomes "work" at that point, and I never want to see the day when I look at my bass and think to myself "I don't really wanna play, but I have to."
 
If you get a group together to play touch football, because you enjoy it, well yeah, you will not get paid.

However - in that scenario - you are not providing a service to anyone.

One could say youre providing entertainment to all those you inviited to come and play along, much the same I provide entertainment to those I invite to come out and see my gigs.

If you are in a band and meant to entertain the clientele at a bar, festival, county fair, whatever, you are providing a service, you should be paid, regardless of the fact that you enjoy it.

What if no one shows up to the bar? At a fair or festival I would expect to get paid, but my band doesnt do those kinds of shows. Oh, whats that? Im not taking paying gigs away from people who want them...

And certainly if you are a sub/fill in/what have you (with no long term interest in the success/failure of the act), I don’t see why anyone would think you should do that for free.

Neither do I, unless it was a good friends band and he asked me a favor. And if he were getting paid I'd negotiate a cut for myself.

For those who “play for the love of music, man” and have no need or desire to get paid, well why don’t you stay out of the clubs? Rent a community hall somewhere and put on your own free shows, for the love of it.

Because that takes way more time an effort to organize. It could end up costing a band way more than just gas money to set up and certainly a lot more time.
 
Wow, way to lay on the guilt. I guess all the Catholic Girls* who are giving it away should feel guilty, too, for driving down the price of sex on the street, huh? :D

I am going to play a gig for free on Friday. It's not that I have an aversion to getting paid to play, it's just that the venue is operating on a shoestring and cannot afford to pay the bands who play there. It's a cool little place, though, and we want the gig. It's play for free or don't play; we choose to play.

(BTW, none of us are rich, but none of us depend on music for a living. Money was not the reason we started playing music and it's not the reason we play now.)

It's a supply and demand thing, and there is a glut of musicians on the market. Musicians who are willing to play for free aren't the problem, it's just that there are too many musicians chasing too few paying gigs. It's the way the Free Market works, for better or worse.

*Invalid Link Removed

The place your a playing on Friday has convinced you they have no money, but they want a band right? Its play for free or don't play? Well then don't play, and if enough people stood strong guess what THEY WILL PAY! or they will not have a band. Are you really that desperate to play that you will do it for nothing? Maybe you have another profession that you don't need the money, and I have heard this reasoning before. All I'm saying is that realize you are hurting musicians that do need the money. Why should anyone pay a band when they can get a band for free? The reason there are too few paying gigs is because there are too many selfish "musicians" that bend over and play for free because they only care about themselves.
 
I'd bet your attitude stems from your inability to get paid because you either play music that sucks, and nobody really would pay to hear it or your skills as a musician are lacking and nobody really wants to hire you.

If this is the case, then logic would dictate that you have nothing to be concerned about.

Of course, the foundation of your argument is bogus as you have no way of knowing the skill level of other posters in this thread. But if you are simply the spear throwing type, then there is nothing the rest of us can do about that.

I say, if you insist on getting paid, then please keep insisting that you get paid. And if you could care less whether you get paid, then care less.

Chill!
 
I don't get paid to race my bicycle - in fact - I PAY to race my bike.

This is an interesting point.

If you think you are "getting paid" to play music when you walk out of the bar with an extra $50.00 in your hand, you need to think in real terms of the economics involved.

Total the hours you have spent practicing the material at home, driving to and from rehearsal, rehearsing with the band, driving to and from the gig, playing the gig. Factor in gasoline.

Now, divide that $50.00 in your mitt by the number of total hours above. What are you worth per hour? Are you getting it?

I would hazard a guess that most of us here on TB are PAYING to play music, even when we think we're "getting paid."