I fear some of you are missing my point. Which is that I am beginning to suspect that there is a dynamic including both the newer board / speaker topologies AND the mix references / preferences of younger sound techs, such that we are hearing precisely what they think we should hear. In other words, the mix is intentionally what it is.
I confess that my reference (currently in two cover bands) is to study the reference (usually studio) recordings; and to do my very best to render performances which are both faithful to the recording and add a few signature things in the correct places to keep things tasteful and make it our own. Still, understanding the mix dynamics and where various instruments / vocals are in the hierarchy is essential study material, IMO.
What I am increasingly hearing is sound techs who seem to be tossing the reference recordings in the garbage and intentionally striving to create a more "modern" renditions, based on whatever their biases happen to be. I do NOT think this is inexperienced techs with too much board in front of them. I believe what I am hearing are conscious decisions; and, that's my concern.
Further, I don't believe I'm some kind of hobbyist warrior with a keyboard. At least I don't think I am. I'm still a performing musician, and just remarking on progressions of the way things are being done. But, if it makes some of you feel bigger to make me little, have at it.